Many people are intrigued and nervous about their first kiss. For many, it seems like a terribly scary milestone, although speak to many adults and they'll tell you that now they laugh at how nervous they were, and that things just got better with practice!
A lot of it is about timing and neither one of you being sure if you should kiss the other first or not. The worry being, that you're the one who leans in and the other person leaves you hanging! This is probably all down to communication, although if you are already holding hands and have been on a few dates, it is something you are both expecting. Normally, the first kiss is at the end of a date, when you're saying goodbye to each other.
So you're probably thinking just tell me how do you makeout with a boy for the first time?!
How to make out with a guy? I know most people say it just comes naturally, but if you sense that the message didn't get to him then you need to attract his attention, and there are so many ways to do it. Below is the simple tips to make him want to make out with you:
Take the lead...but take it easy
A lot about making out with someone is about the whole of them not just launching in for a kiss and a quick fumble. Some men really like to have their hair stroked, or their ears and neck kissed, which would be an easy way to start if you are giving them a hug goodbye, then progressing on from there wouldn't be very difficult. The more you slow it down, it will be a less rushed and embarrassing experience. Kiss him just for a little while then stop and take time to both calm down a bit, even tell him how long you have wanted to be able to kiss him like that. The more communication you can have with someone the better the experience will be.
Knowing which way to hold your head, or whether you should use your tongue when kissing or not, really does come quite naturally once you've started - although you might not think it now! Everyone has different speeds that they kiss at, and one of you will probably lead more than the other. Many people don't like really forceful kissing, so just take it gently.
The main thing is not to worry and only kiss someone when you feel comfortable and ready to. Kissing is a great way to express your attraction and love for someone, and research shows that couples who have been together for a long time, spend virtually no time at all kissing now compared to when they started dating. Many successful couples make sure that they still give time to savouring each kiss with their significant other. The best advice, is to think about how you would like to be kissed, and chances are this will also be the case for your boyfriend or girlfriend.
