Why do I feel uncomfortable talking to other guys besides my boyfriend? I don't mean talk as in flirting, like having a casual conversation with someone.


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Jaimie  JT Profile
Jaimie JT answered

I don't know ... I talk too much to everyone too much :) so you have the opposite problem of me then :) anyway ... Guys are the easiest to talk to cos they're way more afraid of us then we are of them... Trust me on this one ;) I know stuff about stuff.

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Barb Cala answered

Probably your own insecurity.  Not sure how old you are .. But it's pretty common to feel uncomfortable talking to the opposite sex .. Especially for younger folks. 

Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

You have whats called a guilty conscious for some unknown reason here so whenever you talk to another guy, you feel guilty like youre cheating on him. From past experience working with people and their relationships, this usually results from the person wanting to hide something like a lie or even maybe a secret affair and afraid of getting caught.  Most people in this situation feel like they've been caught and that cheater or guilty is written across their forehead.  This is where the truth will set you free so do some soul searching and remember a wrong in your past if applicable and time will eventually take care of this.  Good luck

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Dance like a gypsy
I've never cheated on anyone before so I don't know what you're talking about
Arthur Wright
Arthur Wright commented
Never said you did , all I said was past people have cheated and made them feel guilty. Whats your reason here, I have no idea but something is making you feel the way you are here and why you cant talk to other guys. I don't know you or your past so I cant honestly tell you why
Dance like a gypsy
I see, that's not the case though because I haven't done it also my boyfriend doesn't forbid me off speaking to anyone so I'm not sure either
Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

This is classic insecurity talking . .. Especially when talking to the opposite sex. It can be very intimidating. Its very typical especially for someone who is very young.

How you interact with others is dictated by your personality and temperament type .. Not "guilt".

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