I Get Accused Of Cheating Or Lying All The Time, But When I Confront My Boyfriend About The Same Thing, He Gets Angry With Me And Starts Arguing, What Is This A Sign Of?

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Anonymous answered
I went through the same thing for two years only recently after becoming pregnant did I say enough was enough and I left him. And later the truth came out he was cheating on me the whole time with other girls.

I don't want to be the one to tell you this but it's the biggest sign possible. People only confront things when they themselves have something to hide and I strongly believe it that.

Just think when he goes out "with the boys" is he able to answer his phone or is it texting only, are you a secret to some of his "friends" or family? Little signs will show you a big answer...pay attention to detail and you'll see the answers to all your questions.
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Anonymous commented
Thats good advice too babe just stick to something and then go with it. You still have your own life leaving him doesnt rui it its a step forward not backwards xx
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Cheating,
Tell him flat out, Next time he accuses you., tell him very calmly, all the accusations in the world won't make you cheat on him. No matter how angry he gets, you aren't going to cheat on him.
Tell him if he feels the same way he should tell you the same. If he blows it off, and, gets more upset ... Well, people who cheat look for an excuse to do so. Ask him in a calm voice, if you've done nothing wrong why is he so upset?
Judith (Irish Faerie Blessings) Kreindel Profile
A lack of maturity. That you both have to find a common ground and either decide to trust each other or look at why you don't and perhaps moving on. It's hard to withstand such accusations, especially when you know you're innocent. Perhaps he reacts that way because he is innocent, after all, that's why you react that way. No one likes being accused of things. Good luck with him!
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Kathy Ricker answered
Usually, if he is accusing you, he is the one who is cheating.  He also makes a point of telling you that your lucky to have him, and be happy the way it is.  A very BIG sign there. Your best bet hon is to tell him it's over and leave, you deserve better.
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Anonymous answered
There is no sign. There is no jealousy involved here. He justs needs you to prove your loyal then he will stop asking you. The only reason he gets angry is because he doesnt realise that you love him yet and he is frustrated because he loves you loads. I was exactly like him a few months ago. Hope this helps x
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Thank you, it does help a bit, i just hope youre right, he didnt call last night while out at a friends, and he kept a secret from me for quite a while and told me the other night while i was intoxicated, he said because he knew i would get mad. And i did, and now that he waited to tell me, it makes me wonder what else he hasnt told me because hes afraid i would get mad. I am just very confused anymore, and i feel like a child when it comes down to it.
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No problem babe and tbh it doesnt sound like he's worth it. I know it sounds horrible and it will take a while to get over it but seriously dump him before he dumps you then you wont be as upset. Xx cameron
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That he is an asshole but hey thats what you girls like.
JuliAnne/ Genuine Guidance Profile
Sounds as if your b/f has either been a cheater or cheated on in the past and is projecting that onto you. Also, his outburst when he is accused of the same thing can be viewed as a sign of guilt.
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Adriane Arroyo answered
SOunds like a guilty conscience or a previously abused heart. BUt deep down you know what it means. Your instincts are right. I would move on. Who wants to be with someone that yells and argues all the time. There is a major lack of trust on both parts.
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He want to break up wit you I think.or give him sometime to get over whatever d problem might be
mary grace colon Profile
A sign of unhealthy relationship, lack of trust to each other. You need to pause for awhile to realize each others worth.
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The only thing is, i do trust him. Its just the way hes been acting in the past few months that have me wondering whats going on. I have never cheated on anyone and dont intend to. I believe if you really feel the need to cheat, then end the relationship. People dont deserve to be put through that. It just makes me wonder if hes the one that shouldnt be trusted. Like hes guilty. Hes invaded my privacy more than once. And that makes me lose trust in him. Im just confused, and no one can help me.
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nettie answered
The two of you are not right for one another you need to seek another companion or go it a lone for a while and work on yourself, your worth, what type life you want for you, spend some what is called some ME time, that is time spent with yourself because if you can not stand to be with yourself, who in the world do you think wants to be with you...the best to you
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Sorry to tell you this but it means...he doesn't trust you witch means that your not made for each other

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