My boyfriend of 5 years has been deleting the history on his phone, I know for a fact he is not cheating, but when I confronted him he said he didn't want me upset! Should this be a red flag? Please help me figure this out, thank-you!


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Lia Tan answered

The fact that he's deleting his history isn't necessarily a red flag, especially if he does this often. For instance, one of my best friends likes to delete all of his phone histories and he does it regularly. I do this too from time to time if I think that I have too many text messages or call histories and I'd delete most things or everything just to clear away some of the "clutter" my phone accumulates after some time. But if he has only been doing this recently, then it does raise some eyebrows as to why.

The fact that he's getting angry could either mean that he has something to hide or he thinks that you are accusing him of something. Talk to him about this some other time and say that you aren't accusing him of anything and you're just curious. If he says that it's none of your business, don't go and assume the worse. He could be going through other problems that he just doesn't want to talk about. But I'd keep an eye on his behavior after this and hope that it doesn't continue to change. Change could be signal of something bad going on (not necessarily cheating though).

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Anonymous commented
If he gonna tell you that he dont want you to be upset then 9 times out of 10 he hiding something from you
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Yin And Yang answered

You know for a fact he is not cheating but he says he didn't want you upset......... Sounds to me that he is watching some "XXX" on his phone.

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