It could be more than a fantasy rather then an obsession.
Its like..guys like porn right? They think porn stars are fit and they like to imagine being with them and having sex with them but what makes it better for them is that its FANTASY and not real..it would never happen in reality.
Hmm I'm not sure this answer is helping
What I mean is its probs just something in his head something that's just little its like we all have our little obsessions like when we fancy celebs n stuff in no way should you feel your not good enough for him because you are not Asian.
After a year, of the best relationship I\'ve had p and just about to move in, I\'ve discovered Asian school girl porn on his computer this morning! I have not confronted him as I know this will probably break us up. My friends say it\'s normal for men to look at porn but it bothers ,it was so specific and that the girls looked so young. I don't know what to do... Even if I do bring it it up I know that if it's something he's into, Even he promises to stop, it will not. I feel betrayed and heart broken as he had become my best friend! Please let me know your thoughts...
Wow. That is terrible. I also have an addiction to asian porn but I don't actually approach asian girls in real life as I know it is a disease I have that I'm working on curing for myself. I apologize for him falling for the host's family's daughter I think that is terrible. I have no advice to give as it sounds like you still like him though. Sorry. I also felt like going to Japan and have been learning japanese... Oh when will this obsession end.... I am sad.
I have the exact same problem! All my boyfriends friends are asian, his ex is asian, and he only watches asian porn. And no the problem is not the porn its the fact that its only asian porn. His searches are as specific as "petite asian threesomes" or searching the specific porn stars by name. I've been trying to come to terms with it because besides this everything else is great but after almost a year of dealing with this I'm not sure that I can. I must say reading all of these other post may have just made it worse.
It is an obsession with allot of men. I have heard every reason from they are smaller and tighter (sorry) to they are more wild. Whatever it is, he will overcome it sooner or later and it will make your relationship so much better when he does.
Best you can do is talk to him about it and be honest about it. Tell him it bothers you and is making you feel like his attention is pulled away from you due to it.
Men are idiots. There are a lot of asians that are larger than the average american (taller etc.) they have been starved for so long that in general have unhealthy body types. Their diets must consists of rice and starch in order to survive. They have been so starved and unhealthy for so long they eat cats, dogs, rats, dolphin etc.... Anyone who worships any of these cultures is disgusting. Also it is a myth that asian women are 'tighter' and 'smaller' in their vaginas. I have known military personnel who have told me that those are myths, women are the same everywhere-- except that they regret ever having relationships with the knife-throwing, men killers (they kill soldiers in their sleep), that only want US citizenship. Anyone who is in a relationship with a man that enjoys down syndrome/12 year old girl features-- please leave them before it is too late for you and your future children.