My Boyfriend Is Obsessed...how Can I Help Him...become More Mature?

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Sue Gill Profile
Sue Gill answered
I guess the real problem to be he doesnt pay you any attention right?? You need to talk to him and let him know that you need more of his time--don't try to do this without his undivided attention
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I too dated a gamer, and that is their whole life. My Ex didn't clean his house, bathe daily or care about work, and he sat around in a pair of sweatpants playing video games for hours, until dawn on most nights. When I asked him what he did all day, he started talking about the games he was playing. No woman wants this, its not a mature adult relationship. That's why most gamers don't have girlfriends. They have no lives, live in fantasy worlds most of the time, and that's great if that's what they want to do, but I wouldn't expect it to change, he sounds just like my X.
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Shamyra Jackson answered
I hate to say it.., but if he is going to become mature..he has to do it on his on. Let him know how you feel about him playing all day and night. Try and ask him to do things with you to get him away from the game. Have you tried playing the game with him? Maybe if you play with him for awhile that he might get off early and you two can find something else. Good luck on this one.
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Kristin Czarny answered
Don't date a gamer and think you can take away his games. If he was a sports fanatic you would complain about him watching too many events. If he was a party guy you'd complain about his drinking and late nights. If you find something about your boyfriend you don't like that is related to what he enjoys doing as a pass time... You can take interest in the same things, deal with it, or move on. He is who he is, and you are who you are. Women can be obsessed with shopping and hitting the mall with friends, sometimes so much so that boyfriends can become neglected as they are always away, they don't seek
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Anonymous commented
Unorthodox. Look into your past right now-where in your past have you been neglected, or less important than something else? There's a way to heal-when you do this you allow him to change, to grow outside his box because of the new room you bring for acceptance. Or you'll both move on and you will attract someone on a healthier level. First, Praise God( what you believe in) with full gratitude for the neglect/trials,for their experience and learning-be grateful.then let it be.hand it over to God

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