My daughter's boyfriend is abusing her how can i help?

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Cristo Castillo answered
Okay if she's is afraid of him..
Than maybe call the police and aware them of the situation.
If it gets bad you should really get her out of there!!
Than again you may help her but if she likes it than in the end, she'll go back to him and you'll go through all that trouble for no apparent reason.
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Rhonda Williams
Rhonda Williams commented
Already got the handle on it, it won't happen again i try and let her deal with it own her own but when she is afraid there is nothing that she can do alone but with someone to assist her she will be able to do it im going to see to it. Thank you cristo
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Vicky Ticha answered
My mum used to get abused by my reall dad since she was 16. My gran did nothing about it and my mum spent another 12 years of hell with him because she was afraid and didn't get any help. So talk to her and tell her its a bad idea to stay with him and if shes afraid then make sure she feels safe with you. Get him locked up or something like an agreement for him to stay away. It prob sounds weird coming from a 14 year old but I know what it looks like when someone gets battered and its not pretty. And the consequences of it aren't either. So help her :)
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Rhonda Williams
Rhonda Williams commented
Also i forgot to mention they have been together for 10 years and he always puts this front on like everything is going right until you in the house with them and you hear them yelling with each other. While the kids are here =(
Vicky Ticha
Vicky Ticha commented
I wish you the best of luck to get rid of that man and for your daughter to live in hapiness :) noone should get treated that way.
Vicky Ticha
Vicky Ticha commented
And I also feel very sorry for the kids. :( I know what it feels like to watch your parent fight
veronica newmen Profile
veronica newmen answered
You should report him right now its not ok to abuses someone
Steve Williams Profile
Steve Williams answered
Tell him off...infront of your daughter...her dad is his biggest worry lol
Daniel Profile
Daniel answered
Whoop his ass. You shouldnt let him hurt your lil gal. Haha but honestly if I had a daughter and her boyfriend was abusing her I would kick him to china (no offense to chinesse! I love you chinesse ppl!)
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diana collins answered
If he likes to hit gurls..in the first place why word you let you daughter ever look at sumone that hits...whoopp his ass...or I will do it for you!:)
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Rhonda Williams
Rhonda Williams commented
My daughter is 31 i did not choose anyone it was her choice it's like it always is being great in the beginning then when the real person comes out its to late. It's a ver complicated situation he uses the kids to threaten her. He comes over when there is no one home i found out that this has been going on for a long time she lives on her own not with me. Today i happened to be here i called the police and had him escorted to the psych ward. Today was the last straw =(
Vicky Ticha
Vicky Ticha commented
You go gurl! He deserved that
Rhonda Williams
Rhonda Williams commented
Thanks =)

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