I'm Scared My Boyfriend Is Going To Cheat On Me, How Can I Be More Trusting And Less Scared?

I'm a guy and I have a boyfriend. He has never cheated on me but my last boyfriend did. I have never cheated on anyone and it is my biggest fear...
For example: We went out on the weekend clubbing and he got hit on by 4 guys that approached him right in front of me. This week he is going out without me with a friend which worries me because of my fear.
How do you deal with jealousy when it is staring you right in the face?
All my friends have told me that you should trust someone until they give you a reason not to but I am not like that. To me trust has to be built.
I know this doesn't really help answer your question but at least know that not all guys are the same and we all feel jealous at some point in our life.
Try focus on the positive aspects of your relationship. It sometimes helps me.
At some point down the track (wait a few months at least) it may be a good idea to discuss your fear with your partner. Let them know of your insecurity. After all you shouldn't have secrets from your partner.

That has happened to me before. :[ I'm sorry that you had to go through that. But as I figured out, not all guys are the same. The last guy you were with was a jerk, but that doesn't mean that your boyfriend now has to be. Try to hang out, text, or call him as much as possible without looking like a stalker, so you can make sure that he's not cheating [since he'll be thinking of you.] Well, I hope this helped!

Well you probbaly scared that he is going to cheat on you because he flirt with other ghurls
   but all I gt to say it is not what I tell you or how I tell you but it is by faith so have faith! Then you would trust him more and MIGHT be less scared so try it.?!

You could try a prescription for Valium

Barbie, part of a lasting relationship is trust. If you can't trust the person you're with, it's not fair to be in the relationship. I think you're worrying too much. Us guys can be cruel, but hopefully you have met the right guy!

You can never be sure...he probably will cheat on you because all men are cheaters.
All men want a woman who is more attractive than the one they have and all men will go after that goal. It's a fact of life.