Pippa Corbett answered
It sounds to me like you're stuck in a rather difficult situation. To be honest, trust is a hard thing to build up - it requires time and commitment.
If your boyfriend is really paranoid, convincing him might be a difficult task.
Convincing your boyfriend that you're not cheating on him If your man is always doubting where you are, who you're with, and what you're getting up to, this can put unnecessary strain and pressure on your relationship.
My advice for allaying his fears would be to take a double-sided approach:
1- On one hand, you need to make him aware that this behavior is not normal, and not acceptable.
Sit down and talk to him about how his paranoia is making you feel - tell him that you love him and want to make things work out, but that the way he's behaving is making things difficult.
2- On the other hand, you should try and involve him in your life as much as possible.
Showing him that you want him around you, and getting him to interact with your friends and be a part of your social life should prove to him that you have nothing to hide.
If your boyfriend is really paranoid, convincing him might be a difficult task.
Convincing your boyfriend that you're not cheating on him If your man is always doubting where you are, who you're with, and what you're getting up to, this can put unnecessary strain and pressure on your relationship.
My advice for allaying his fears would be to take a double-sided approach:
1- On one hand, you need to make him aware that this behavior is not normal, and not acceptable.
Sit down and talk to him about how his paranoia is making you feel - tell him that you love him and want to make things work out, but that the way he's behaving is making things difficult.
2- On the other hand, you should try and involve him in your life as much as possible.
Showing him that you want him around you, and getting him to interact with your friends and be a part of your social life should prove to him that you have nothing to hide.
