Why Does My Boyfriend Continue To Lie To Me About Stupid Little Things - Ie Where He Goes With Friends Or What He Has For Lunch - When He Knows I Always Find Out The Truth And It Just Causes The Argument He Wants To Avoid?

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scout deere answered
He is hiding something big under those small lies
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Trust me - he has no time for anything else. He has admitted in the past that he has trouble telling the truth ie - he would lie or delete stuff from his phone like calling his sister then say to himself why the hell did i do that - all he does is work and come home and sleep and work and once a week he goes out with the guys from work - no time for big stuff -
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I am Life..... answered
Assure him that you don't have any problems in knowing the truth and help him to change, intead of going for arguements go for discussions as this might lead to something big in future...... Make him understand you more clearly and help him do the same for you.....
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This I have tried doing... We used to argue about everything including stupid things like his lies about lunch or money or talking to people when he says he is sleeping etc.. Now he is finally being open about most things and we are communicating and discussing and finally realizes we share a bank account and phone records so i know everything so its pointless to lie YET he still is lying even after he told me he realizes it doesnt pay and i know everything.. So why does he still lie??
I am Life.....
I am Life..... commented
Well what I can feel is that its his habbit to lie, and it takes time for anyone to change his habbits. I completely agree to this that it feels bad when the other person is lying and you know the truth, so from now on whenever he lies, you tell him the truth and tell him that you know that, there is no need to go for an arguement, even if he tries to defend, keep quiet and let him say whatever he wants to, slowly I hope he changes due to this reaction of your's...... Take care.....

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