How Can I Tell If My Boyfriend Is Lying To Me. I Need Someone To Explain And Help Me Realize What Is Really Going On?

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Hly NZ Profile
Hly NZ answered
If you suspect your boyfriend is being dishonest, there are only 2 things that could be making you feel that way:

1. - you have evidence of him being dishonest in the past and are finding it hard to trust him now

or

2. - you DO NOT have evidence of him being dishonest in the past but instead have your own insecurities.

With the first one, if he has been dishonest with you in the past and you are finding it hard to trust him again then once again, I think there are 2 things you can do. The first requires him to basically disclose everything that you ask of him. As you have been hurt before by his dishonesty, you may feel the need to know about even little things, so you can start to gain proof that he is being honest and you can trust him again. If he is not happy with this and does not want do that for you, you need to ask yourself if he really cares about the relationship as much as you do and what future it holds. The second, is that you don't ask for details about everything, but instead forgive him for what happened and trust him again. Obviously with this option, if you do that and once again find out he hasn't been honest with you, then it could be the end of the road (which isn't necessarily a bad thing).

If he hasn't been dishonest before (that you know of) and you are just having trouble trusting him, then you need to take a look at yourself and think about why you don't trust him. Is it something from your past? Someone else you know of that you don't trust? If it is to do with something else and not him directly, you need to realise it's unfair to put that mistrust for someone else on him. I'm guessing if you talked to him and asked about things in a non-obtrusive way, you'll find that the communication lines will open up and you'll feel a lot more trust in the relationship.

I hope thats of some help and you are able to get past this. Remember, relationships are meant to be fulfilling and enjoyable, so start enjoying!
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Robin Sargent commented
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Brice White
Brice White commented
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Brice White
Brice White commented
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Anonymous answered
Well you can tell a guy is lying because they really do give themselves away! They have a hard time thinking of new lies to cover up ones they told! Honestly, if you really suspect that he is lying to you he probably is! Especially if he has done it in the past and you have caught him. Its hard to say exactly every guy is different but all in all they do little things that you need to watch out for such as voice changes, low to high, umm. Not looking at you and also if he brings his hands to his mouth as if he is trying to hide something, or if he bites his lower lip when telling you something that you asked! I will tell you this though a guy will never ever and I mean never tell you the truth if he has been lying! He will not confess! You just need to look inside yourself and think real hard if he is the kind of person you really want to be wasting your time on if you suspect that he is lying or cheating!
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Anonymous answered
Dear can you tell me what makes you think that your boyfriend is lying to you...

Well I read your comment ... Okay now here we go... See when your boyfrnd is saying that he has not slept with any girl in that case show your trust in him.. May be your guy is just too active and fast when it comes to physical intimacy but that doest mean that he has lied to you. If you keep asking about his past you are not only pestering him its also hitting your relationship with him negatively... Moreover you two have been together since past two years and if he has been faithful to you in these two years then I don't think his past should bother you... Don't give in to unnecessary suspicions and spoil your relationship.. You gotto trust him... And if he has to tell the truth he will come n tell that to you someday or the other

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Anonymous answered
Ask to prove it. There's no other way than that. If he says, you don't trust me, just say YES, I DON'T. SO MAKE ME. And if he said I have no proof, then let it be, and don't let it bother you. Something will come out later. That's for sure.
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Anonymous answered
Ask a lot of questions. Then wait about a week or to. Bring it back up. Ask some of the same questions &see if the answers are the same!
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Stephanie C answered
I don't know completely the whole truth on this, but in my opinion he doesn't make eye contact and looks away.
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Annie McManus answered
When he looks at the top of your head and says some lame complement, it means that he is lying to you.
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Anonymous answered
You can tell if he is by ignoring you and by saying something that is totally different what he said before
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Anonymous answered
Make sure he keeps eye contact. If he looks away, even for a second, he is avoiding your eyes and therefor avoiding the truth. No one can tell a lie without their voice changing. If his voice becomes higher chances are he's lying. Look at his posture. If he appears stiff or rigid or looks like he's really stressing in his position then he's lying. If he's telling the truth he would appear more relaxed and confident.
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George David answered

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Allan David answered

At this stage of the game, it doesn’t really matter whether or not he’s cheating or she is cheating. You suspect that he/she is. Whether you’re right or wrong about that, you clearly don’t trust him/ her .So the lack of evidence proves nothing to you.Then, you’ll conclude that he’s even craftier than you thought, and he’s covering up too well to get caught.....

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Anonymous answered
Well sometimes if they smile or laugh you can tell. Sometimes if there nostrils flare that means there lying I'm not really 100 percent though
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ernest brusven answered
You stand a better chance of knowing when you car needs repair than when your boy friend is lying to you,if he is sotheopatic the chances are even slimmer,if you are asking me about my boy friend I don't have one.and if I did it would be none of your busniess any way. P.S.I am a blond.and I miss spell.
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Anonymous answered
I need to know if my boyfriend tj is lying to me or if he is cheating on me wit some other girls
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Anonymous answered
I think he could be lying by if he did lie to you in the past and he did something like twitching his eye or something like that and he does it again then he's lying it might not be the best answer in the world but I think its a good 1 kinda. =)
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Ferjay Quinoan answered
You will know your bf is lying to you when he can't talk to you straight eye to eye...that's one of my suggestion

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