Unfortunately you can't. Take everything they say with a pinch of salt if they are strangers.
You would never no but it is very unsafe for you to me text someone you don't no a lot of ppl ask me for my cell phone number but I just say I don't have one
Can you? I don't think you can unless you contact a professional and expert who can help you detect that. Here is Smith who has helped me detect a cheating spouse, you can contact him on gmail via his username( Williamsdhackghost at gmail..com).. I'm sure he'd help