My boyfriend watches porn and never cheat on me. But i just don't like to see other people naked? What should i do? I feel that other woman are much sexier than me and i am scared my boyfriend wants some one else?

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Kimara Adam Profile
Kimara Adam answered
I'm sorry I don’t agree with you. If the man is watching porn, it could just be he is watching porn. If you already know he is not cheating or letting the porn take over his life than leave him alone. Why you are calling the man a bum and stuff, the woman didn’t say anything negative about him. She just wants to know how I get him to stop watching porn. I do agree with you on her speaking up. Everything is just a lonely woman speaking her mind. You know what they say misery loves company. At the same time he might be bored in the bedroom and instead of cheating he watches porn. Spice it up in the bedroom, he will be so busy making his own porn he wont have time to watch it or he might  continue to watch and bring what ever he learns to bed.  Not all porn is illegal, raunchy and degrading.
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Lines2win
Lines2win commented
I totally disagree with the first guy John as well. My wife, thats right my wife watches porn with me. We have 2 very young kids as well. If it bothers you then absolutely say something. I know my wife isn't freaky like the porn girls or maybe even as hot anymore, and thats ok porn is entertainment. Just because I watch it doesn't I want her to do all those things or that I am gonna cheat because she is not like them, thats just ludicrious.
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John answered
If they are watching porn they are cheating. Your "boy" friend is not grown up enough to know what is real and what is memorex in more than one way. If he is wanting someone else then he is going to do it anyway,whether you like him or not. If you respect yourself you would dump the bum and find someone who will respect you for you.but after saying all this if you don't voice your opinions to this guy then he does not know he is disrespecting you or your values.so if you tell him and he still does what he wants then he really does not care what he does to you or against you/your values.in other words he is not the one for you.
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Brittany Nicole
Brittany Nicole commented
Finally...someone with some common sense
jessie cuellar
jessie cuellar commented
Watching porn is not cheating. BEING with other girls is cheating. We seem to have a problem with definitions here.
jessie cuellar Profile
jessie cuellar answered
Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel. If you don't want to watch don't, if you don't want him to, ask him not to. If he wants you more than the porn, he'll make an effort. And if he wanted someone else, he'd get someone else. Work through it together, that's what a couple is supposed to do
Brittany Nicole Profile
Brittany Nicole answered
I caught my bf watching porn, and I dumped him. There's no question...hes watching other women and orgasming to.them...uhm, that's cheating honey! What has the female population come to where its ok for their man to look at naked women? Give me a break!! Women have no.self respect nowadays!! Would YOUR man get mad if you orgasmed to another man? I'm pretty sure he'd be pissed...if he isn't, he probobly doesnt care about you that much honestly...

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