The movie was re-made, starring Alec Baldwin and Kim Basinger, and the same scene was kept in.
It is one of my favourite movies.
YOU CAN'T....Losing someone you truly love is in a way like a death. You go through a grieving process, you have to. Denial, anger, hate, even depression
will come, you will try to find ways of getting them back, DON'T. You'll get the urge to contact them, again DON'T. Once you accept it is over however hard it is, only then can you move on. Take it day by day, stay close to family and friends who will support you, get out and about, and gradually the pain will ease. I've been there trust me, I learned the hard way.