Would it be wrong to talk to someone (romantically) just becoz you need love? will it do too much psychological damage to the person doing it?

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Would it be wrong to talk to someone (romantically) just becoz you need love? will it do too much psychological damage to the person doing it?

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Answer 1

PJ Stein answered

Getting romantically involved just because you need love never ends well. You need to find away to live yourself first, then share that love with others. I know it is hard to do. Been there, done that. Trust me on this. Once you get right with yourself, everything else falls on line. You will not attract as many losers, because they fear strong people.

Answer 2

Yin And Yang answered

I am not being facetious here but... If you need to feel loved so badly that you would risk getting another person involved knowing it might hurt them then... Wouldn't a pet dog or cat be better. They need love and will love back. You keep speaking "romantically" but I don't think that's what it is you are deep down seeking. I think your need for feeling loved goes beyond another person. They won't be able to fix you.

Answer 3

I would only talk to someone romantic if i knew whom they are and i would need to talk for quite sometime with them. I feel that KiK messenger is the safest . It allows one to pick a username and we don't always need to give out our real name . I would use names as Goldie Rush , Bettie White , Bruce Michael just to name the few. I never had problems using KiK . If someone creepy comes on there i just block them but i never had that issue. As far as using emails i recommend Gmail , Outlook cause they give you chance to report phishing emails these are scammers , spammers , I would not recommend clicking on links cause there could be pictures that carry virus, malware etc .

Answer 4

No. It might give the notion of you being foot loose?

Answer 5

Willie B. good answered

Nice girls don't do that.

Answer 6

Working romantic relationships online are like four-leaf clovers---they exist, but not worth the required time and effort to find. (the chance of finding a single four-leaf clover is about one in 10,000)

You asked above in one of your comments, "How do I love myself?"

I think this short article may be of significant value to you. It has a few very good suggestions

https://verilymag.com/2017/04/love-yourself-first-is-bad-dating-advice

(And please ignore my above comment to Yin---I for some reason thought this was a question posted anonymously,)