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My Best Friend Left Me ... What I Can Do?

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linda answered
Honestly, if your best friend left you then he/she wasn't a friend at all because friends don't leave each other. They're supposed to be there for one another through thick and thin. No matter what happens your best friend is supposed to be by your side at all times so if he/she left you then you need to find another friend that wont leave you! That's just my opinion.
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...,if I were you, I would find someone else as your best friend. I know how you feel. You feel like there is no one that could ever replace him but you must face facts that your best friend left you. A best friend couldn't do that to his/her best friend if he/she really IS your best friend...For me, just move on cause he's happy with his decision. Just control yourself and don't bother with your situation cause you'll just miss that someone you called "best friend" and please, don,t EVER show that your sad whenever your ex best friend is around. Be strong....

In my situation, my best friend and I never had a conversation after our fight. It's been 7 months now and still waiting for my best friend to say sorry. My best friend is the only one whom I cried sooooooo much. But, he chose to leave me then so be it. I can't force my best friend.

Kung saan ka man BOK, mamimiss ko kaw,sobra...:(, d na tau nagtetext and nagtatawagan. Miss ko na lahat....:(,I'm still waiting....for you...
(where ever you are "bok", I'm missing you so much, we never texted and called each other, I miss all the things we've done together...:(]
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Deejay Zeus answered
My best friend didn't leave me, but he is with his so called friends. He is famous in our school and so does his friends, whenever he felt alone I was there for him. But for his entertainment he needs them. I felt bad, it's like I'm being used...all those days we were staying close.. But one day his sister fell from the window and she died.... That day was the turning point. I was there with him all the time...inquiring if his family and he was alright, I could attend for the prayer but not for her funeral. This made him disappointed and sad thinking that I'm not there for him. I went everyday to his house even at the time of my exams, he was crying;I couldn't study even him...But I didn't argue at him for it... He told me sorry and I replied not a problem. During the results my marks did go down and still then I didnt remind him about that. There was the last exam which I had to be there for him. I helped him to study accountancy so much within 2 months he got 75/100! His family and all were happy for me. But he didn't call me nor invite me to go outside with I'm for dinner just after the exam. Now he's in the school with his famous figures, when they are not there he comes to me and talks that too very rare.
He said he misses them and is boring without them. A tear filled my eye... All this I cared for him, couldn't he give me a value? Does he need a friend who entertains him? Or the one who cared for him?

This is life guys, I have cancelled his phone no. And don't call him, he will one day call me for his studies that time I'll give him the proper answer. No one is good, everybody needs others for using or maybe for having fun. Stay strong guys, if your friend leaves you.. So what? He didn't kill your family. Throw it out and don't waste your time.
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Anonymous answered
I left my 'best friend' of 5 years. She ditched me CONSTANTLY for other people. To her, I was nothing but a backup. I put her in front of me everytime, yet I always came last for her. She treated me like a loyal dog.

I finally left her a few weeks back. Now she's wiping my name in the dirt. However, I've never been so happy in my life, I'm so grateful for my decision.

The thing is, you should think about what position you're in and WHY your best friend left you. Are you at fault or is she just a bitch?
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If you're best friend left you... Maybe they weren't really a best friend... If they thought hurting you was worth whatever she/he left you for, they aren't worth your time. Find someone else... And if your "best friend" tries to come back, show him/her how much they hurt you. Say,  "no. You hurt me. You let me down. You don't deserve to be my friend. Good-bye"
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My best friend left me..and I don't know how to deal with it..I really don't..at first I tried to fight to get him back but he just told me he was done and wasnt going to be there for me anymore..he even said he was going to block my number so he couldnt get my text messages or calls anymore..I felt and still feel so bad and I don't know how to handle it..we were so close and I have cried myself to sleep every night since then..and I just keep hoping that he will come back to me and apologize for everything that he has said and done..because he has broken my heart..he just dosent know how bad it hurts to not have him in my life..but no matter what happens or what I have to go through..I'm going to fight to get him back and I'm going to prove to him that I'm a loyal and a true friend and he will regret what he did to me
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Find new ones...People change. Forget about them. Be Strong and don't let them get to you. Its thier lost or even gain. Think about your self but also them. I am pretty sure you will be fine. Stand tall and screw those bitches
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Zoe Crombie answered
The one--and maybe only--thing to do: Move on. She isn't a good friend at all. Don't let her use you anymore. Besides, you deserve to be happy :)
I've been going to the same school for six years ( and still on-going) with this girl. We became Best Friends around the third year. She's cool, fun to be with and I can vent out my "anxiety over something" feelings and crap problems ( not literally ) at her. We were basically Best Friends side by side, just like Tin Tin and Snowy ( If you know what I mean ) But the thing is, throughout the years I watched her change. She's been hanging out constantly with other people, even when I'm there, she'd go off nonchalantly. I was hurt. I was even more hurt when she went back to me, I knew she was just using me. She's going back to her old, RELIABLE friend who will NEVER leave her, ME. That's what she thought.
Things got worse at freshman year. She found a cooler friend to be with, so she really left me. I was affected, like...boom. But I eventually got friends. Then again, she goes to me when she's pissed at that girl. And when she feels alright with that girl, she goes back to that girl. That got me really pissed.
This year, sophomore year, well it's still continuing. I don't know why I'm still letting this happen. But when she goes to me, I don't tell her many things like I used to before. Sometimes she'd be like: "Hey," --slings her arm around my shoulder. "I missed you." I'd reply with an OK. Whatever. Let her be. My other friend once told me that my "technically-EX" Best Friend still considers me as her best of the best. Yeah, I'm only the best of the best when she needs me. For Christmas, I'd probably send her the link of The Urban Dictionary, under the category of FRIEND.
Not that I want her back. She may be money-wise or street-wise, but she's not friend-wise. Eh. I sound so corny.
My point is, stay happy, find TRUE friends. I don't need to say that, because you'll eventually meet them :)
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Anonymous answered
You..I m also in same situation..my best friend left me without any big matter and for some boys... Now I m thank to god for understanding me to she is not my real frnd...thtz my mistakes..now I decided ,if she come back any day,I wilnt trust her and now I say goodbye to her for ever ...
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I had a bestie who was never there for me, the only thing I could do was move as far away as possible - so Canberra it was.  He never talks to me anymore and seems to always out late at night.  He keeps telling me its work, but I think that there is somebody else.
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My best friends left me , he was charing with me all the good and bad times , he was filling a very big  space in my life , now am feeling lonely ..very lonely , he relation ed me so much when he went , he disappointed me , don't want to answer all my calls , I felt when he left that I was in love with him or what ... I don't know !!!!

I know that he is deserving our relation cause he left me , but I was care about his relation , there was a miss understanding between us ans he don't want to forgive me , wana say that I miss him and will be always like that ...
Now or at the time being I need him and if he came back I will continue with him our relation , but don't know if he came back later what will I do?!
Wana ask how could someone can be every thing for someone and he go just in a min.

I miss you Mohamed , wished you was here beside me cause really I need you , and so sad without you.
Missing you always
temuzion victory Profile
Your best friend left you..hmm so now you might have understood that even your "best friend" is also a "person". Person in the sense he is also a normal human being who would have all the emotions. So leave the matter of searching for normal friends and have the Almighty as your friend. If The Omnipotent is your friend you will have a lot of confidence that you are a cut above the rest of the beings. Share everything of your feelings with Him and He will definitely find a solution for you. Meanwhile if you need any help from any person, He will gift you a friend who won't leave you in times of distress.
thanked the writer.
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The same thing happened to me yesterday.We are a group of three and every partner stuff, we want to do it with one of our best friend and the other one gets jealous.We had a skating trip today and we were aloud to go in two's.My two "best friends" went together in the last trip and they went again in this one too. I just told them that I am not their friend.What's the point of having a friend who breaks your hear EVERYDAY. Do not trust people who don't stick to their words. THEY BROKE MY HEART!!
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I don't know about this.  I just left my "best friend" because while I believe we should always BE THERE for our friends they have to be there for us too.  I dumped my best friend two weeks ago because every time I hung around her, I felt bad about myself.  If she needed a favor it was followed by a "you can go home now" after the favor was done.  I started to feel like everything I did wasn't good enough but she would have a score list of all the things she has done for me.  All I'm saying, people are not "left" just for no reason.  It's easy to say they weren't a "real friend" but perhaps you weren't a real friend?
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Call her from your phone or if you don`t have a phone you could go to relative to drive you over their

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