I've always told my friends that I'll only explain myself once and that if you don't believe me, I won't dance circles around you trying to prove it.
It feels good to have friends but they all mess up once in a while. Keep a cool head about you. Let them think what they will think and move on with the life around you. If they bring it up or accuse you, ignore the accusations and don't defend yourself like a lunatic. Just tell them calmly and to everyone, "I told you the truth, and I'm not going repeat myself over and over. If you can't seem to trust me and believe me, then maybe it's a good thing we're not friends. Because that's what friendship is based on."
Let it go and keep being the person you are. He or she will eventually come around and when they do, have him or her acknowledge that they were wrong and have them explain that to everyone they spoken wrongly against you. Above all, when he or she comes back, BE SYMPATHETIC! You were once best friends! Let that past fact remind you that you once were in each others pockets. Believe me, your relationship will strengthen after that.
Yet,if your "best friend" doesn't come around, it may be better that it doesn't. Friends shouldn't treat another that way and you are better off finding some one else who is worthier of your time and friendship.
It feels good to have friends but they all mess up once in a while. Keep a cool head about you. Let them think what they will think and move on with the life around you. If they bring it up or accuse you, ignore the accusations and don't defend yourself like a lunatic. Just tell them calmly and to everyone, "I told you the truth, and I'm not going repeat myself over and over. If you can't seem to trust me and believe me, then maybe it's a good thing we're not friends. Because that's what friendship is based on."
Let it go and keep being the person you are. He or she will eventually come around and when they do, have him or her acknowledge that they were wrong and have them explain that to everyone they spoken wrongly against you. Above all, when he or she comes back, BE SYMPATHETIC! You were once best friends! Let that past fact remind you that you once were in each others pockets. Believe me, your relationship will strengthen after that.
Yet,if your "best friend" doesn't come around, it may be better that it doesn't. Friends shouldn't treat another that way and you are better off finding some one else who is worthier of your time and friendship.