I have never cheated on anyone , but I was cheated on twice. I dumped them both as soon as I found out . I have now met my one true love, and neither of us will ever cheat on the other. We both love and respect each other to even contemplate it .
Will someone please tell me that they have cheated, or been cheated on and still made a success of thier relationship? Anyone?
Many of us have been "cheated on" but, almost all have ended their relationships. There is unfortunately an institution of TRUST that develops around lovers. When that trust has been broken according to the perception of either person, the security to say it will never happen again vanishes. It is kind of like if you never tasted pumpkin pie, you would not be able to say it is good when somebody tells you of it. I cannot explain now but, you will one day learn that 'cheating' only exists in your mind. You have been programmed to believe in 'cheating'. Lots of love to you.
I have cheated and been cheated on a few times. Though that was three years ago. We are now dating again with a very sucessful relationship full of trust. I wish you luck!