Why Doesn't My Boyfriend Bring Me Around His Friends?


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Mati green Profile
Mati green answered
I have been with my fiancee now for 6 years, we live under the same roof and he does the same thing. I think its because guys are afraid that his friends will like you more than they do him and hes jealous of YOU.. Not jealous of them for their comments about you. Although its certainly annoying that men do this, I also think its normal. As long as he's setting aside time to spend with you I wo worry about it too much. If he starts to cut your time short to spend time with his friends.. Breaking dates etc, then I would talk to him and ask why.
Lynne Dwyer Profile
Lynne Dwyer answered
I once had that problem. Turned out he didn't want his friends or their girlfriends slipping up in front of me. But considering the ? (s) you've asked today, could it be he's a bit controlling.
Deemarcas Day Profile
Deemarcas Day answered
Sounds like a jealousy and control issue.  Your boyfriend is insecure and he is going to get worse the longer you stay with him.  If he can't trust you, or control you, and won't allow you around his friends, then I'd drop him.  Usually a man is proud of his lady and wants to show her off.  You better off without this loser.  I bet he has made you feel bad in other ways as well about yourself.  Get a real man you enjoys your company enough to share it with his friends. 
samual answers Profile
samual answers answered
Maybe he doesn't trust his friends or he's insecure. He might think you may hit it off with one of his friends and eventually dump him. Have you given him reason to not trust you?
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Lilly Anne
Lilly Anne commented
As far as I know I haven't. I am loyal to him, cater to his needs and...everything a girlfriend should be.
Anonymous commented
I have a similar problem. My boyfriend of a year and a half has introduced me to his family and always includes me in family things But friends are a no go. I just found out we are invited to a wedding which involved an overnight stay. He hasn't told me about this at all, but has told his mates I won't be coming. I trust him totally but have no idea why he has done this. He also won't be physical with me anymore. I think he still fancies me but am totally confused by his behaviour. Any insights gratefully received.
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Anonymous answered
A lot of boys do this hun, its because they are insecure of themselves, and jealous that you may like his friends more than you. Don't dump him over it! Just speak to him and ask why he is doing it, and that you would never disobey his trust or cheat on him, just tell him it would be nice to spend time with his friends and him, maybe suggest going on a double date if any of his friends have girlfriends, then you will be able to get to know his friends too. :)

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