So Me And My Boyfriend Had A Huge Fight And He Hasn't Decided If We Should Stay Together Or Break Up. We Both Love Each Other,we Fight About Small Dumb Things. Should We Stay Together Or What?

I'm goin thru the same thing right now.
Like I said my bf was lying about something
And I was just having a bad day. And now I feel like he'll never talk to me again, and I've been dating him for about 4 1/2 months now.. And this is our FIRST fight..
What I would say that you do is talk to him .. Let him express what he is feeling and then when he is done, then you do the same thing. Guys will prlly think just talking is stupid.. But it's really not. It could be what could save your relationship.

I hope this helps, and maybe I should take my own advice too.
But problem is.. He won't answer his phone.

I think that you should stay together and work things out if you love each other. Every time couples encounter problems, always look at it as your fight together as a couple.

You fight the problem. Not you guys fighting each other.You can work things out and you'll be stronger than ever!Good luck!

Well I dated my now boyfriend for 2 yrs and we use to fight about everything and when I say everything I mean everything and anything but we tryed to pull through it cause we loved each other and I know it got on his nerves and it did mine as well but if you love someone you will stick together no matter what happens. Yes, Stay together try to work things out in a mature matter and if that doesn't work try something that will work for the both of you, I know its hard to do this sometimes "talk" sit down and have a long quiet talk and see what he thinks and listen to him don't interrupt him listen and then say what you have to say. See if that helps.

I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 20.we argue over stupid stuff.we argue over stuff that makes me want to leave him but we just get closer.how old are you and your boyfriend?

I agree with the both answered before me... You should have a quite talk with him.. sometimes boys think that that is silly having a talk... but that is just what can solve your problem.

If anything he says which you don't agree with him, then you should talk about that at the end when he's done with himself... so while listening, be peaceful. after he's done, tell him what you feel about him, how the fight was so stupid, how you think you guys should stay like the happiest couple on earth(at least try this way). having this talk can make your couple very strong and protected.
good luck.

I'm going through exactly the same thing, I love my boyfriend to bits &where id be without him I do not know, my boyfriend said 'I think if we argue one more time I think we will break up' yeah not the greatest thing you want to hear when your in love with them, if I was you id stay together &sort things out, I hope I can to, best of luck :).

Stay cool, These are some of the things that both men and women faces each and every day. It is also a way to draw them closer to each other. But yes we guys sometimes try to avoid talking about it after a fight. The reason why is because we know that we were wrong! (to any guy that is reading this I'm sorry) but it is true that most fight the lady is always right. Well not ALL THE TIME... SamBami you and your friend talk things over. And if he doesn't want to talk about it then tell him "NO MORE S3X FOR YOU TONIGHT".. He he then maybe he will listen...

I have gone through the EXACT same problem!! Not so long back, a few months, me and my boyfriend were arguing like cat and dog! But it wasnt anything worth arguing about. Everytime we argued, my friends say he was thinking of ending it. And vise versa. However, we never broke up because we loved each other sooo much. And we stayed together. My advice is that you should definitely stay together. If you know how much you love each other you wont be able to make the decision to end it. Keep trying and trust me it will be better than before. Just spend time with each other and try find the spark you had at the very begining. Good Luck.