If you have to ask other people ... Let alone people who have no idea who you both are ... For marriage advice, then you are not ready to get married.
I'm 21 my boyfriend is 26 we are thinking about marriage and talking about it a lot and we have been together for 9 months is it to soon or should we go for it( ps. He is an immigrant from turkey. So it makes things a little more interesting)?
You are on here questioning it. That is a sign that you don't really want to get married and you are looking for some kind of validation.
Plus at 21 you are really just beginning to figure out who you are. It is best not to get tied down and stunt that growth. You need to discover who you are before you can truly share your heart with someone else.
Mn, well really asking for marriage advice from people online give's off the vibes that you're not ready for marriage, however, do you have any experience of living together? You don't really know the person unless you have lived with them for awhile. Marriage is a serious topic, and you might regret it if you've only been together for 9 months, i'd wait a couple more years with living together, but that's just what i would want.
You're nuts to ask us.
No, you aren’t ready.