Should I move on from my ex boyfriend? He broke up with me bc he is in a foster system and he said he didn't want to get abused. We were long distance. His mom says he doesn't deserve to have friends so she blocked me on everything. We love each other

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When you engage in a 'long distance' relationship .. Especially as a child, there are many things that you (as a child) may not catch in terms of what you are being told.

Either he is in what he legitimately says he is in "an abusive situation"  with his foster mom .. Which, BTW, he needs to report to his child care workers .. Not YOU .. OR .. He is not in being legitimate at all and is completely lying to you in order to gain your sympathy in attempts to manipulate you.  I'm not sure how this mom can even 'block' you without him 'unblocking' you.  THAT is suspect all on it's own.

I am curious to know if you have ever met him in person?  .. Or are you just going by what he is telling you on line?  THIS could potentially be something other than what you've been led to believe.

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Walt O'Reagun answered

First ... What the others said.

Second ... No, you do NOT "love each other".  You don't even KNOW each other.  You may LIKE each other - or at least what you tell each other.  But there is no way to KNOW a person, without meeting (and hanging out) in person.  All you "know" is what they are willing to tell you - and you don't even know if that is the truth or not.

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I've been IN LOVE more than once, over the internet, and I'm plenty old and experienced enough, in love, that I DO know the difference. People can and do get to know each other very well, via the internet. Since, obviously, you haven't experienced internet love, you shouldn't seem so sure, when you don't actually KNOW. Nuff said.
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I've been IN LOVE more than once, over the internet, and I'm plenty old and experienced enough, in love, that I DO know the difference. People can and do get to know each other very well, via the internet. Since, obviously, you haven't experienced internet love, you shouldn't seem so sure, when you don't actually KNOW. Nuff said.
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I actually do KNOW.
And your response actually reinforces it. Thank you.

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