I Like Wearing A Nylon Nightgown To Bed I Bought At A Vintage Clothing Store. My Mother Told Me She Thought It Was Inappropriate For Someone My Age To Show Cleavage, By Wearing Such A Gown. I Didn't Think It Was Really That Bad. But I Think My Mother Thinks My Step Dad Will Have Bad Thoughts About Me Wearing The Flowing Gown Around The House?

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Monica Smith Profile
Monica Smith answered
Well first...you do live in your mother's house. You should respct her wishes. Second...you should have the respect for your own body not to show your chest. If anything, put a tanktop under it or put a robe over it.
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Stewart Pinkerton
She's 17 and learning to live with her new body and her new womanhood. I'm sure she has plenty of respect for her body and I don't see the problem here as her, so much as a jealous and insecure mother who has a new man. She looks to be a beautiful young woman, don't try to squash her spirit with your Victorian morality. BTW, if you check the answer she gave to another question, she's no blushing virgin! :-)
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Anonymous commented
Yea I gotta agree with Mcrfan87, it's not so much about being a victorian as it is respecting the parents wishes, and that transcends times and cultures.
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???????? answered
Well whats your read on your step-father. Does he sometimes show slightly inappropriate attention, or has there been a time were you felt uncomfortable with his presence. What's your general elationship with him. And by that I mean do you get along with him very well, and do you share many of the same interests with him? I only ask this because one of my cousins had a similar type of problem with this issue, but it stemmed more from her own mother's insecurity and lack of confidence. She told me once that her mom seemed to view her as a sort of competition in the looks department and that her mom was way to preoccupied with her advancing age.

I don't know just some thoughts. And by the way I love 70's horror films, and since I got my Netflix account, I'm going through many obscure and foreign titles I've always wanted to see.
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Katey  Davenport
Katey Davenport commented
Thanks for your input. My step-dad is OK. You're probably right about my mom. She is a bit insecure and has gotten a little chubby lately. Do you think the nightgown itself is that inappropriate? I mean your close to my age. Wouldn't you say it's more romantic as opposed to trashy?
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Jessica Bolton answered
Umm okay first its your step-dad anyway, he should love your mother, and take you as his own child not as a show girl. Next its okay to show cleavage, especially when only like your family members can see it. NOT THE WHOLE WORLD. So I think your mom's kinda paranoid but you know all mothers care, so it just shows that she is a loving mother (no she is both) :) how old are you ?
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I wouldn't say that you're showing any cleavage in that gown, but it's certainly going to show the shape of your boobs pretty effectively as you move, and any normal man would find it sexy. Your mother is clearly jealous that you are developing into a beautiful young woman, so it might be an idea to avoid wearing it around your stepdad, unless of course you enjoy your new-found sensuality. If you are going to keep wearing it, don't be surprised if some 'inappropriate' behaviour results.
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Katey  Davenport
Katey Davenport commented
Thanks for your comments. Maybe you're right. To me my boobs are just the annoying mounds of fat that can't stay still when I run but to guys, including my 39 year old stepfather, maybe it really turns him on. I'm only 16 so I forget that even though I might be a child in my heart my body is not. Thank you. I think you gave me a solution, I will wear a bra to bed from now on or at least when I wearing that nightgown. PS - I hope I didn't give you any bad thoughts.
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Maggie Sullivan answered
Just make sure you wear a robe when you are out of your bedroom. That way you can both be happy.
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Katey  Davenport
Katey Davenport commented
Thanks for your input. My step-dad is OK. You're probably right about my mom. She is a bit insecure and has gotten a little chubby lately. Do you think the nightgown itself is that inappropriate?
Katey  Davenport
Katey Davenport commented
Sorry that comment on yours was meant for the response above
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Anonymous answered
Wear what works for you.... If she is concerned about your step dad..... That sounds like he has the problem you dig? Has this dude been convicted of something recently?
You're his step daughter.... He should not think sh**
Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright answered
If it makes you happy then go for it and just use a robe around Dad and besides Dad shouldnt be having those kind of ideas about his daughter for petes sake, and enjoy
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Stewart Pinkerton
Well that's the problem, isn't it? He's *not* her dad, and her mom is probably madly jealous and insecure.
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Poogal vag commented
Wear it! Who cares what they think girl. She's your mom, but wtf,



Im a high school gal, and i would so do that. I'd do it just to show my boobs off to your step dad. Strip in front of him, and show yo off.

BYE NOW
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Arthur Wright commented
This was over 2 years ago

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