My Boyfriend Has Been Really Mean Lately, Just Verbally, No Insults Just Being Really Rude And Sighing To Almost Everything I Say, Talking To Me Like He Does To His Mom, Really Mean. How Do I Handle This?

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You probably don't want to hear this but I seriously do think you two should break up or at the very least spend some time apart.  do you really want to be with someone who treats you badly and makes you feel bad?  No.  maybe during the break he will realize that's he was being a jerk to you and will change or you will realize that you can do so much better than him. 
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I am in the exact same situation.  But when I bring it up he always tells me I'm being too sensitive and that he was either joking or that he didn't mean it that way.  I would tell you to leave him...but I know it's not that easy.  Every single person has told me to leave my boyfriend and that I deserve better, but this is the second time around and I really, really want to work things out.  So I totally understand your situation.  The only advice I can give you is to stay strong and try to put yourself first.  Good luck.
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I know what you mean! Mine has been acting similarly, ignoring me, and being indecisive about the relationship. People keep saying that I should leave him, but I can't just give up. What I'm doing is giving him one LAST chance. If tomorrow our date goes well, he gets it. If not, then he isn't hearing from me again.
  I suggest you give yours a similar ultimatum- he needs to know that he can't keep hurting you, and it he's going to be a prat then he can get lost. You don't need him, and I'm sure you can do better! It hurts now, but in the end it's better for you to be in control and sort this out that let him break your heart.
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Tell him straight up how you feel. If he continues after you have asked him to change his behavior, dump him. You don't have to take that.
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Why don't you just wait a couple days and see what he has to say and go from their. It sounds like something has upset him. He may be upset with you and want to leave you or it may be something completely different than you that's on his mind just wait a couple days and find out.
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Yo have to put your man in check or else it will just get worse tell him straight up seriously and bluntly, do not talk to me like that. I don't appreciate how you are treating me. YOU have to be the one to tame him or he will be a wild bumble bee.
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Now I'm a bloke and I know that we can be s$!&'s often now your boyfriend is probably annoyed at something possibly coping with a loss or school or home life or he's being an insufferable piece of s$!& but we're not all like that so hope that he calms down soon and it will be fine if not ignore and avoid him for a while he'll know he' peed 

you off and hopefully apologize to you fingers crossed

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To the last post.  You need to seek help - sounds like post pardum depression.  I may not have spelled it correctly, but I have suffered from it.

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I don't understand why some girls think they need a men so bad that they will take any abuse from them. There is a saying that when a men is mean to his mother he is not going to do any better in any relationship. This guy sound like a depressed person that don't respect women are you so desperate that your going to be unhappy in your life for this men.That is the way you handle this,LEAVE!

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