If that is your picture, then speaking as a man, and a conosieuer of ladies, you are more than decent.. You are a very pretty girl. The guy should compliment you more, or he is an idiot.
But I got to agree with dll, some guys simply are not good at compliments (some feel like it is getting mushy, and is hard to deal with.. They grow out of that), and some are simply oblivious. I think my wife is beautiful, and probably should compliment her more often, but I sorta wander around lost in my own little world most of the time. Luckily for me, she knows how I feel about her (she should after 20 yrs marriage), and she knows that just because I do not say it does not mean I do not feel it.. I am just a tad of a dense a**hole. (About 2 months before our wedding, I sat her down and told her I was exactly that.. So she would have a chance to back out of the wedding. I told her I did not want to hear, 5 or ten years later "I did not know you were such an a**hole or I would not have married you!") She puts up with me which makes her nearly qualified for sainthood.
Back to the topic... (see what I mean about wandering around in my own lil world?)
Having been happily married for this many years (and we are happy, our son gets grossed out cause he says we still act like newlyweds), we have learned one or two things about how to have a good relationship. And number one is HONEST, OPEN RESPECTFUL COMMUNICATION.
You must let him know how you are feeling, honestly, but you must not approach it in a way that would make him react defensively. If he percieves he is being attacked, all listening ceases... This is where "respectful" comes into the equation.
Be warned, however, that Amerfarooq may be correct, and your boyfriend may be wanting to move on. While I always believe that knowing the truth is a good thing, it can also be painful, so before you ask the questions, be sure you are ready to hear the answers.
If the boyfriend is ready to move on, then you are better off finding out now as it will get you back on the path towards finding that person out there who IS right for you.
Good luck.
But I got to agree with dll, some guys simply are not good at compliments (some feel like it is getting mushy, and is hard to deal with.. They grow out of that), and some are simply oblivious. I think my wife is beautiful, and probably should compliment her more often, but I sorta wander around lost in my own little world most of the time. Luckily for me, she knows how I feel about her (she should after 20 yrs marriage), and she knows that just because I do not say it does not mean I do not feel it.. I am just a tad of a dense a**hole. (About 2 months before our wedding, I sat her down and told her I was exactly that.. So she would have a chance to back out of the wedding. I told her I did not want to hear, 5 or ten years later "I did not know you were such an a**hole or I would not have married you!") She puts up with me which makes her nearly qualified for sainthood.
Back to the topic... (see what I mean about wandering around in my own lil world?)
Having been happily married for this many years (and we are happy, our son gets grossed out cause he says we still act like newlyweds), we have learned one or two things about how to have a good relationship. And number one is HONEST, OPEN RESPECTFUL COMMUNICATION.
You must let him know how you are feeling, honestly, but you must not approach it in a way that would make him react defensively. If he percieves he is being attacked, all listening ceases... This is where "respectful" comes into the equation.
Be warned, however, that Amerfarooq may be correct, and your boyfriend may be wanting to move on. While I always believe that knowing the truth is a good thing, it can also be painful, so before you ask the questions, be sure you are ready to hear the answers.
If the boyfriend is ready to move on, then you are better off finding out now as it will get you back on the path towards finding that person out there who IS right for you.
Good luck.
