I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex. But I Love My New Boyfriend. When I Start Thinking About Ex I Become Witchy. I Don't Want To Hurt Any One But I Can't Keep Putting Myself Through This Pain. Any Advice?

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Actually, that kind of thing happens with a lot of women. I guess there really isn't any magic pill or anything like that. How do you tell someome to stop feeling what they are feeling? It's like trying to tell someone to stop liking their favorite ice cream. How do you do that? Those are tough emotions to get through but, only you can change that. You have to decide, what is the right thing? Do you really love your BF and want to make it work? Is it worth it to risk this new relationship or hurt or make uncomfortable the new guy over an Ex? You cannot possibly open a new door until you close the last one. I know it's easier said than done but, you have to finally surrender. Surrender your feelings for the ex and focus 100% on the new guy. If you really love him, you will close that door and open a brand new one for you and your new BF. Try to remember why you broke up in the first place. And say...oh yeah....I remember this & that....and it hurt. My new BF does not do that or treat me that way. He loves me. If you continue to be "witchy" to the new guy, you just might lose him in the long run. Is it worth it? Sometimes the right thing to do is the most difficult. Good luck to you~~ I know that is a difficult situation to overcome, but you can do it.
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Focus all your attention on who really maters' to you.  When ever you start thinking of Ex, find a good and kind distraction.  Start replacing the Ex thought with that of the good or kind thought and then you can implement the boyfriend now in thoughs thoughts.  It works.
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Thank you for your reply. I will be sure to try it out. Thank you
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Yes, I agree with Lori, catch yourself thinking of the ex right away and consciously change those thoughts every time.
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I'm in love with my girlfriend but I can't stop thinking about my ex and I hate it me and my new girlfriend have been going out over 1 year and I love her with all my heart but I can't stop these thoughts and they make me sad
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You have become torn... Witch one you love more is what you must figure out!
I'm sure you already know that but try these!!!!
Who do you tink of more offen? Who do you talk on the phone more? Who do you spend more time with?
Hope tis helps! :)
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She is stoned...Must have never had to deal with this...You WILL Cheat and you Will end up being with your old flame. Its going to end though but at least it will rock while it is alive,,,,

To sum it up you are doomed to cheat/breakup with the relationship till the new dude can replace the old

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