Actually, that kind of thing happens with a lot of women. I guess there really isn't any magic pill or anything like that. How do you tell someome to stop feeling what they are feeling? It's like trying to tell someone to stop liking their favorite ice cream. How do you do that? Those are tough emotions to get through but, only you can change that. You have to decide, what is the right thing? Do you really love your BF and want to make it work? Is it worth it to risk this new relationship or hurt or make uncomfortable the new guy over an Ex? You cannot possibly open a new door until you close the last one. I know it's easier said than done but, you have to finally surrender. Surrender your feelings for the ex and focus 100% on the new guy. If you really love him, you will close that door and open a brand new one for you and your new BF. Try to remember why you broke up in the first place. And say...oh yeah....I remember this & that....and it hurt. My new BF does not do that or treat me that way. He loves me. If you continue to be "witchy" to the new guy, you just might lose him in the long run. Is it worth it? Sometimes the right thing to do is the most difficult. Good luck to you~~ I know that is a difficult situation to overcome, but you can do it.
