Why Does My Wife Want Me To Wear Women Clothes?

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Make no mistake about it, your wife is establishing herself as the top in your marrige just as my girlfriend has done in ours. It all started out as a game where if I wore her panties for the day we would have sex. Soon I was wearing panties almost every day and found myself equating panties with sex. As things progressed she would require me to wear more feminine items and for longer periods of time before sex. I was now wearing panties, bras. Camisoles and pantyhose or tights under my cloths to work for the entire week just to have sex one night. She had me right where she wanted me and she knew it. One day at work I overheard two women talking about me and was mortified to learn they had noticed my pantyhose under my cloths. At first when she heard what I had told her about the womens conversation she was amused but as I told her I could no longer play this game she became irritated. At that point she told me she loved me very much but if we were going to remain in this relationship she was going to wear the pants and I the panties and anything else she chose, Permanently! It's been almost 6 months since then, I am completely smooth from my shaped and slightly arched eyebrows down to my painted toenails and now wear lingere 24/7 either with pantyhose or tights. My girlfriend lets me wear gender neutral cloths to work over my lingere and the women there are polite but I know refer to me as the sissy or pantywaist boyfriend and all the men just think I'm gay. At home it's babydoll dresses, no exceptions even when her girlfriends come over, they also are polite but continually giggle and give me tips on how to be more feminine. When in I'm out in public it's womens slacks, conservative blouses and ballet flats as she wants me to look like an effeminate boy. Most men don't even notice but 99 percent of the women can see me comming a mile away and almost every time were out a salesgirl complements me on my outfit which always amuses my girlfriend. She says in time I will get use to it and I've learned not to complain or hesitate to put on what she has layed out for me as more than once I have spent a week wearing a satin hair ribbon as punishment. As summer is aproaching she has been showing me some catalogs with rompers and short shorts asking me which I perfer. When I asked her if I had to wear pantyhose during the summer she said of course not, you will now wear tights and thanked me for helping me choose my new outfits. She ordered a pink, black and lavender romper with matching colored ballet flats and says I will be wearing them with white tights and matching white satin hair ribbon. It's going to be a long summer.
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I would love to be you it would be awesome i love wearing womens clothes
Lee Jay
Lee Jay commented
It sounds like you girlfriend is like my wife. She too did to me what your girlfriend has done and is doing to you. Now almost everything I own and wear is womens wear and yes I enjoy the complements I get from other women.
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I have always chosen to wear girls clothes, mainly because they feel better, and I love the way way they look....perhaps it started with me being the hemming model for my sisters,who soon introduced me to panties ,and later to bras,and camisoles, then slips to wear as I was modeling their dresses, and once the dresses were done, I willingly chose to model them, while wearing the panties,bras,slips and other finery they gave me.

It all felt SO good! They practiced makeup on me, and taught me all manner of girlish moves, like walking,sitting,gestures - taught me about what to wear for periods(which I didn't like at first) but got used to..now I'm older,and on my own, but I still prefer to wear misses clothes(I simply love wearing a maxi dress on a windy day)..and my girlfriend seems to love my sense of style, and like to see me in panties and a bra, mini skirts,dresses,and misses jeans. 
 I know it's not for everybody, but it works for us, and recently she asked me if I wanted to be with a man for a night,so I could feel what it's like to be a girl..hmmm!
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OK that is not a problem , if a wife wishes you should respect her wishes and should not harm her sentiments, it is all happens inside the house, Even sometimes I also try the same with my husband and he accepts the same and wears all my clothes and even short skirts also and he looks marvellous and looks like a cute sexy girl and after all I use to comment wifes girl and he is my little baby, so I want him to dress all the time in my costumes and remain at home to look after my needs etc. As I am earning a lot and can take care of him but I want him to become like my wife and he is agree for that so my life is toooo goooood and enjoyable and also his life is tooo goood and he is also enjoying it .
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Lee Jay answered
She sensed your femme side and besides helping you get in touch with it she finds it exciting to share the feminine with you.  That is great and your wife sounds a lot like mine.  But for me I feel it is more a reward, definitely not punishment ...
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My wife find it a turn on,when I cook all our meals in a maids uniform and white pinafore aprons.She is the boss in my family and sex is a lot better if I exactly do what she wants. All my uniforms are very plain. I am getting use to it!!. Since I do all the housework!!
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Here is a thought on the matter. The wife may have some issues with the male gender and feels more comfortable with her husband in women's clothing - de-masculinizing him. Perhaps a stern father history prompts these feelings. I don't think it has anything to do with her being bi-sexual - more like her enjoying him in a different way with him beingg more feminine-like.
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Garry Parmelee answered
Sounds like my kind of women.  Wish I could find a women who would have me do those things in those clothes.  I am all for it.
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If she is anything like my girlfriend, she wants to prove to you that she wears the pants in the relationship. I now have to wear dresses when I am cleaning the house or doing any other of my chores.
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I am a transvestite my wife lets and helps me dress up,I do all the housework and am totally at her command it works very well for us both.
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Ive been wearing womens clothes since I was 14 I am now 38 I met my wife in a gay  bar when I was dressed up she loved it. When we went out people thought we were 2 girls and we always got chatted up.I am bisexual and had many male lovers when we were going out together and she really loved it when we pull blokes but nowadays I just stick to dressing up at home and when we make love as she loves sexy underwear
its what ever floats your boat and everyone is different
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mek nic answered
So she can have a hold on you as you put them on ,then  she just loves your ....in them so live it up
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She may have a paraphilia, or a fetish. She might be more attracted to you when you're dressed as a woman, which might also mean that she's been thinking about lesbianism.
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My wife buys my lingere,hose and heels, somtimes she makes me put on
makeup.

I don't mind, I love her very much and she is a playful person we
will both dress up and have the greatest sex. She asks me to wear
panties all the time and to keep my toes polished she adores me color
doesnt matter pink black yellow, it all turns her on and when she is
happy I am happy!

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For Halloween 2013 we went to a costume party and my wife dressed me in a tennis outfit. The skirt was short and I couldn't always keep my panties from showing. My wife got so turned on that we had the best sex in years once we came home

Since them maybe every two weeks or so we go to that friend's house and at her request my wife dresses me in skirts and blouses. Some are short some are not. They're both excited by this and my wife is always a bedroom tiger we we get home

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Although my wife encourages me to wear a garter belt and fancy hosiery under my outer clothes, the only feminine items she wants me to wear in public are long dangling earrings or large hoops in my pierced ears and high heeled ankle boots.  I usually wear 4-5 inch heels so that she isn't taller than me when she's wearing 6 inch heels herself.

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Karen answered
Oh my god there are some DIFFERENT people in this world. Your wife is just a bit weird.

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