I am pretty sure there are some kinky women out there that enjoy treating their boyfriend's like sissies and seeing them wearing girly panties and behaving in an effeminate way.
In most of the large cities in the world, you can meet such people as they attend regular fetish events and club nights, often with their 'gimps'.
From what i can see, there seems to be a whole subculture around this particular fetish. Some call it 'femdom' when it implies a woman dominating and humiliating a man, other times it is known as 'sissy' fetish when the man behaves as an effeminate little girl while the woman takes the more 'masculine role'.(you can see how close the two concepts are.What would be interesting is to know how many women do this out of love? And how many get involved because they see it as a business - a way to make money as a dominatrix.
Personally, I think finding love in this world is hard anyway (true love that is), so you've got to grab it wherever you find it!
But be aware most women will be attracted to manly and self-assured men and love to be with this type of partner that keeps them secure.
Why?
It's human nature. Doesn't mean doing the opposite is wrong - it's just a choice.