There definitely are some, an there's really nothing wrong with that.
First of all, clothing is just material - it's our minds that attach it to a gender etc... In Ancient Rome togas were worn by men, and having gay sex was widely accepted by society (I just looked it up and they didn't even have a word for homosexual or heterosexual).
So I think if what you're looking for is a women that will let you wear frilly panties to bed then just keep looking. But also understand it will be hard and you won't be accepted by all, our society is all messed up like that.. Really advanced in certain ways, but also pretty backward in lots of other things.
When I was at school I remember how big a deal everyone made about this girl kissing another girl, when actually, honestly, how does it change anyone's life in any way??
Same thing goes for clothes. I think some guys look better in dresses than girls do. I went to a transgender karaoke night once, and honestly the guys that were dressed up and made an effort to look sexy totally knew how to glam up. And the girls looked kinda trashy in comparison Anyway, I'm rambling... But yeah, go for it and good luck with finding someone that fulfills you in every way