YOU'RE INNER FEELINGS WILL GUIDE YOU TO MAKING THE RIGHT DECISION. SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO MAKE THAT LEAP. DON'T GET ME WRONG, GETTING MARRIED TAKES A LOT OF WORK, BUT YOU ALSO HAVE A BEST FRIEND ( THAT'S VERY IMPORTANT) COMMUNACTION, LOVE, ATTRACTION. SO MUCH WILL FOLLOW WITH MARRIAGE. BUT YOU YOURESELF MUST FEEL THAT EXTRA SPECIAL FEELINGS THAT YOU HAVEN'T HAD. I AM A FEMALE WHO GOT MARRIED AT 19 YRS OLD AND NOW STILL MARRIED FOR 32 YRS.
3 WONDERFUL ADULT KIDS AND 1 GRAND-DAUGHTER AND THE 2ND ON ITS WAY. TO ME ITS MAGIC.
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For me, it's not about the early stage of a relationship, it's later when some of the silly excitement has worn off, when the excitement of being with a truly great person comes into view, you have this person in your life who makes it better with every thing that they do.
This is perhaps the person who you should spend the rest of your life with. Do you miss them? Do you want to tell them all your good and bad news? Do they make you feel good about yourself? Do you enjoy their company, do you feel like a great team? Do you argue but end the arguments pleasantly, rather than breeding resentment?
This is probably the person for you, have you tried living with the person before, are you compatible in most ways but still different, do you have the same interests, dreams and aspirations?
Once you get to know this woman your intuition should kick in. You should never jump into a marriage head first without knowing the person you are going to marry. No we will not know everything but in time we will know just what we need to.