At What Age Do People Usually Lose Their Virginity?

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liliana solorio answered
Most girls loose it at a very young age..  Between the ages of 13-16 .. Due to pressure from thier boyfriends and friends..
I was 16 when I lost my virginity, and I honestly regret it.. Because right after I gave it up to my bf he dumped me and got within another girl..

I wish I could have waited till I found the right guy.. (my current bf that I actually do love)
loosing the most precious thing we girls have to the wrong guy and at a young age can be really depressing and most of us regret it right after..

I don't think little girls ages 12-15 should have sex because theres a lot of consequences they have to face after.. But most kids that age do loose it at that age..
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Griffie McGee
Griffie McGee commented
I am 13 years old and not only am I a Virgin I have never kissed a boy or had a boyfriend except this one boy but it didn't count we didn't like each other we just liked drama and having a relationship was huge drama.
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Anonymous commented
Same with me but im a boy so with a girl instead
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Anonymous answered
I'm 15 and I'm still a virgin and proud!
Most people my age have lost their virginity or lost it between the age of 13-15.
Everyone has their own opinions and most people I talk to about it say they regret what they did because of how young and un-ready they were. Boys pressuring girls into sex is what they do, but if your "boyrfriend" pressures you he isn't worth it!
I suggest to wait :)
love yas.
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Bess Garrett answered
I was 13 when I lost my virginity. At the time (I'm 31 now) I remember having raging hormones, friends who had already lost their's and was being pressured from an older guy. I think the reason why we regret it isn't because we (as in all us girls) weren't in love because I think no matter what age to a certain degree we DO love or care about that person. The regret is our bodies and minds aren't ready. I don't know about anyone else but it wasn't some oh my god experience. The guys don't know what they ate doing a frankly they don't care. There is also the slut/ho stigma. Come on girls! We are so mean to each other. NO girl deserves to be ostracized for sex. She probably needs a friend since I do believe that most of us aren't ready. Hell, I don't know that there IS a right age. I do think that our bodies at the very least should be ready and I don't mean just getting your period.  I met my husband when I was 14. We married at 22 (he was 24) and I had my girls in my late twenties. My past has always been a source of contention between us until only fairly recently. I do wish he had been my only. I certainly didn't get anything from the other guys except a jaded opinion. I say take your time, don't do it because your friends have and you think that you should. And most certainly don't if the guy pressures you, gets angry because he got all worked up and he will be in pain for days (boohoo! Tell them to try getting cramps every month!), or if you love me you will (give me strength!!) and really get to know him first. I know this is a cliche but if he is worth it and he loves you, he will want to wait not pressure you to do something that only HE will get true pleasure from.
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Anonymous answered
I'm pretty sure the last time I saw the average it was 16 for girls and 15 for guys. I'm 14 myself and I'm still a virgin, but to be honest If I was with someone now that I really loved, I would probably consider having sex, but knowing me I'd most likely wait until I was atleast 15. I would say that the average age for girls is probably 14-18. I think that anything under 14 is a little weird, and that you probably should wait so that you are definitely physically and emotionally ready. I have had my 1st kiss, and I personally have done everything but full on intercourse (I'm bisexual so I've been with girls as well). I don't necessarily believe in finding the perfect guy (or girl) to lose your virginity to because the chances that you will stay with that person is slim. On the other hand I don't believe in having sex with just anyone. I think that you should be going out with someone that you really really like and trust, and if you are in love than all the better. Point being, I really think you will know what's right for you. If you feel completely and 100% sure that you are ready, then no one can stop you. Just know what's the good decision for you, and go for it. I hope I helped :)
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Anonymous answered
I'm 15 I'm still a virgin..not because I can't find a girl...I just feel it should be after marriage when you have found the right person :P
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Anonymous answered
The right age is after marriage I believe. Me and my girlfriend are 18 and we are still virgins, I can say that even if she asked me to have sex with her on the age of 12-13 blah blah blah... I'd say no of course... I love her, and cause I love her, I don't want her to do something that she will regret in the future so I'm over fine with having sex after marriage ;)
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Anonymous answered
I am pretty sure that people loose their virginity on average between the ages of 14 and 19, or after you are married. I know it is Just a show, but The Secret Life of the American Teenager has a point when even the extremely religious one, Grace, has sex with her boyfriend. Also, not to be influenced by movies, but they didn't just make the movie "The 40 Year Old Virgin" for no reason at all. People probably think that you're "uncool" or "inexperienced" if you don't do it, but really it is one's decision and they should only have sex if they are one hundred percent ready. It can be a scary life changing situation, so before you have sex you should be sure of yourself. My friend lost her virginity earlier last year in April, and she has regretted it every day of her life since because once you have sex with someone, it is even more difficult to get over them if you happen to break up. Therefore, you should wait to have sex with someone you are inlove with trust and that you are almost sure you will be with for a long time. Don't do it just to get it over with; it should be a special experience. I know that wasn't really the question, but I felt obligated to give my reasoning of why I believe this way.  I am fifteen with a boyfriend that is almost seventeen,  and as a freshman I don't know what to think so I would rather be unsure than make a risky mistake that I could possibly regret the rest of my life.
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Anonymous answered
A poll in 2002 said that about 80% of women interviewed between the ages of 15 and 44 said that they lost their virginity at age 17.

A recent survey I read interviewed girls between 12 & 17 who had had sexual encounters and 35% said that they had their first experience at age 14, 28% said 15, and 14% said 16.

Another survey came out in New York that claimed more than 40% of young teens had lost their virginity by age 15.

Only 10% of girls who lost their virginity under age 14 were unwilling.
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Matt Greenwood
Matt Greenwood commented
How does a 15 year old state they loss their virginity at 17? Please read your first paragraph.
Griffie McGee
Griffie McGee commented
It means the 15 year old had not lost there virginity yet I did not get it at first
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Anonymous answered
Really I think that it all depends if you really love that person. I am 15 and turning 16 in a few months and my girl friend is turning 15 next month. We have been going out for almost 8 months and just stared to talk about sex. I think that anyone who is planning to have sex should be mature enough to do it and pay any consequences that come from having sex. Other than that just do it with someone you love and know that you will be with them for the rest of your life
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Anonymous answered
Oh my god!! Everyone is crazy!! 12? 13? Even 14 and 15? Yall think that is normal?? 12 and 13 year olds shouldnt even know what its all about.! I bet anything most of the people posting those ages, ARE those ages! You're not all grown up! You're little kids! I can understand if you're extremely mature for your age, and I mean EXTREMELY! But yall 13 year old saying ive been with my boyfriend for (so and so amount of time) it doesnt matter! You're in what, 8TH GRADE?? Just because you have the word teen after your age doesnt mean you're old enough! Preteens! Quit having sex! It makes you look bad, it makes your parents look bad, and the clearest way I can say it is, it makes you look like a s**t. So stop
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Anonymous answered
I was 16 when I lost mine to my first boyfriend. We waited about 8 months before hand. I definitely wouldn't have done it any sooner - 8 months felt like the appropriate amount of time that I needed to get to know and trust him. Everyone is different though - the main thing is never to feel pressured, not boys or girls or society. I think sex should be with someone you love and it should be beautiful and special. It can be a wonderful amazing thing with the right person, or it can make you feel really cheap and lower your self esteem if you get pushed into it with the wrong person. Take your time!
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Anonymous answered
There are all sorts of ages when people lose their virginity - some people live out their whole lives and don't have sex. I believe the average age of 17 is either a myth or is so low because incidents where the respondents were raped as children has been included. Many young people lie about being virgins due to the social stigma of this. I didn't lose my virginity till my 20s and have several mates who didnt until 20s and a few who I suspect are still virgins (after you've had sex you can just tell) in their 30s. I also have mates who were teenagers so there really is a massive spectrum.
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Anonymous answered
Trust me. It's over rated. When I lost my virginity I expected it to be a pleasure filled experience, but it really wasn't.
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Anonymous answered
In my opinion

Girls 15-17
Boys 16-18

Girls mostly lose it younger due to the fact boys usually go for younger girls. I don't think girls lose it younger because of maturity levels, I think girls just manage to get laid so much easier due to the fact boys are always more up for it as girls aren't as desperate. Picture a scenario, at a party/club a girl being overly flirty and willing has about as much chance as leaving with a guy as to a over flirty guy as it would just come across as desperate to the girl and unattractive. The female attraction mechanism is different to the male one, I believe men look at women more from looks as women go for a personality perspective. I don't furthermore know the inns and outs but it has something to do with the fact women get laid younger and one a more regular basis.

I've just turned 18 and still a v but I usually lie and say I was 17, I think I did the right thing as I had chances at house parties, turned it down because she was already taken. I wanted to lose it at 16 or 17 but I didn't want to lose it in a manner that seemed like I was desperate. A few of my friends think it's weird that I didn't just do it and some people laugh (maybe just the people who dislike me) I'm still not sure if I did the right thing or not?
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Anonymous answered
I lost it when I was 15, to a boy I love, and we'd been together 5 months, and talked about the subject a lot and we were both certain it was what we wanted.
Most people believe it's the supposed "rougher" kids who lose it younger, but I go to a grammar school and am middle class. I think it's all about whether it feels right for you, and no-one else should affect that or have an opinion on that.
I'm glad I lost it when I did, and it brought me and my boyfriend closer, and even though I know it wont last forever, I'd rather it was at this age with someone who really cared for me, than when I was 18 and drunk.
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Anonymous answered
I'm 27 now, but I lost my virginity when I was 17. But I can remember wishing for sex and wanting it very badly when I was 9 or 10 and if I would have had the chance at the age to have sex, I would have.
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Michael Lai answered
There is probably no definitive answers to this, since this is not something that can be validated, or is kept on record for statistical purposes. Most of the things that you hear are probably an over-estimate or under-estimate of what the actual figures are. It is probably safe to say that the average age is getting lower, since people these days generally have better awareness and understanding of sexuality, and are likely to explore it at an early age. I would hope that the average would be near or above the legal consent age for sex, which varies depending on which country you live in.
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Erika Laughlin answered
Most lose it around 16-18 years of age. In my opinion, you should wait. Wait till you're an adult and until you're ready. Kids today like to blow through their firsts and end up regretting it. Just be patient. Enjoy life and being a kid. Most kids today just want to grow up so fast and it's sad. Being an adult blows. I say you should wait for everything - first kiss, bf, sex, ect. I'm proud to say I had my first boyfriend and kiss at 17 and I ended up having a perfect kiss that I can look back on and smile. (:

Btw; waiting till your married is bull. You need to test drive the car before you buy it. That's just my opinion.(;
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Zaza St Jacques answered
I'm  a girl who is 13 almost 14 and even if I would have a boyfriend that I love really much, I wouldn't do it until I'm 16 or 17. My mom and her friends all did it for the first time at 16, some of my brother's friend at that age too, including him. But the BEST time is when you are READY. If you're questionning yourself, that means you're not ready. I hope I helped and what the heck with people who do it at 12,13,14 ? That's pretty rare in my opinion; I know only one girl who did it at like 11 , she's 15 now and she's nice but kind of a whoe...
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Anonymous answered
Well, I am 13 I haven't YET, but my boyfriend wants me to and I kind of want to too. But I am not sure if I should. I still get nervous when I kiss him, so maybe I should wait.
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hey you answered
I am 15 and I was planning on losing it with a close friend and we trusted each other, unfortunatly my mom found a text messege discussing it and now me and him arent allowed to talk at all..so don't do it until you DON'T need permission from your parents :P
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Ashlie lindsey answered
I think that most people lose their virginity when they are 14-20. I lost mine when I was 14 because I was raped. The First time I had consensual sex was a year after I was raped. So I was 15 really. I guess This is weird but I don't know if I want to have sex again for awhile until I find the right person. I had sex because I thought it was a good way to have "lost" my virginity that way. For all you people who think sex is like a game or something you need to look it up and see that it is not a game and that it is special. And once you figure this out you will know what I now know. It doesn't matter what age really, I think what matters is if you KNOW you are going to be with someone for a while. I think that if you wait to have sex your life will be a lot easier. You don't focus on sex all the time you focus on what you need to. If you can find the truth in this you will wait until you KNOW you are ready to have sex. I will tell you one more personal thing, I had sex and Now it is a lot harder to do my work. You only think of this one thing, And if you are younger you need to know that you are strong enough to resit and you will say No because you know that you are not ready. I wish I would have said No. So be stronger than I am and I promise it will get easier as you go!
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Anonymous answered
I am fourteen and I have a lot of friends who are sexually active and are 13 and up. One of the reason's why they think it's okay, is because everybody is doing it. They feel pressured when their friend's talk about it and they feel inexperienced and stupid, which make's the temptation harder to fight. Another reason is because everyone make it seem like it's the cool thing to do. But people don't realize and understand the fact that it is life changing decision, I know a lot about sex, because of what my friend's have gone through. I know a girl who had an abortion and yet continues to have unprotected sex. I'm just letting you know that's what is going on and that's what your kid is probably thinking about or doing. Be there for them, don't judge them, and when they tell you something don't assume , listen and be there for them. I hope this helps.
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Anonymous answered
You should break your virginity when you are old enough to know the difference between making love and having sex. When you have sex with a guy and don't love him two years later you wont even remember what it was like but if you wait for love you will remember the very first time and every time after that. Don't let yourself be pressured into it and don't wait for a certain age. Wait until you are in love or you will regret it
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Anonymous answered
I am 16, have had many boyfriends, slept in the same bed as my boyfriends which most of the time arent virgins, and I still havent done anything passed kissing. About 85% of the girls I'm friends with have had sex many times, and a few since they were like 13.
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Destiny Thigpen answered
I'm 13 and am a virgin but have been thinking about having sex since I been 12 and I am with the one I love for almost 9 months, but to answer this question you can't estimate the age 'cause it gets lower as time go's bye because people find out how to do it at a very young age and want to try it and plus childrens parents are telling them they can do it as long as they don't get pregnant(girls) or as long a they don't get nobody pregnant(boys). I mean thats what happened to me, but my boyfriend helps too but does not pressure me we just talk about it.
I hope this help!!!
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Anonymous answered
Well I'm 14 and am still a virgin. Tho most of my friends don't believe me when I say that I am. Lol. But I think ppl are losing their virginity around the ages of 13-17. If they are still virgins by then, there usually waiting for marriage.
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laura Allen answered
I lost mine when I was 15 but I was giving my boyfriend blowjobs and letting him get me off when I was 13. I wish I had waited on the sex until I was older.
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Anonymous answered
I am 13 and still a virgin I want to lose my virginity but I am scared I don't no what to do......most of the time I'm at my boyfriend house we kiss and talk but I won't let nothing happen because I'm scared he will tell everybody and that will make me look bad at school....so what to do
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stacy yung answered
Well these days girls most likely lose their virginity while their teenagers but I would mainly say around 14 & up not always but mostly
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Anonymous answered
I would say most girls lose there virginity in between the ages of 12-15 but I don't really know!!! Like I'm 14 and I have lost my virginity and I wish I could really take it back its no worth it at all!!!
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Anonymous answered
Why do girls want to lose their vag inity? Vag they wait until their ready and do it with someone they love. Why do boys pressure us to have sex its not right.
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Julii Brainard answered
It's a bit of a funny one because of course, people are inclined to lie. They give all sorts of different answers depending on what impression they think it will make.

According to a 2005 article in The Observer, men on average lose their virginity at age 16, and women at age 17. That's only an average, and we can see all sorts of reasons why men might be more likely to under-estimate whilst women are more likely to over-estimate.

One thing that is widely agreed upon is that the age when virginity is lost is going down, although not tremendously. Over 55s usually say they lost it at 19, and under 24's say they lost it at age 15 (on average). This finding was echoed by a 2006 survey for the BBC, finding that 35% of under 24s had lost their virginity under the age of 16, and only 4% lost it after age 25.

In a recent survey of Radio 1 listeners (so mostly young people), the Welsh had sex the youngest, and people in Northern Ireland the latest.
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Anonymous answered
My big turn on and feel good later is having sex and the girl enjoying it, and being pleased, and maby wanting more. Her pleasure gives me pleasure. So boys, please if she is younger than 16, only tap that if you are in a long lasting committed loving relationship. Older than 16, figure out why she would want to have sex(example: True love, or just for fun), and then decide. Chicks don't dig a bragger, be sure and tell her that "No one has to know," and mean it.
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Tux Guin answered
You people! It is the only safe time to have sex is after you get married! I mean, 12 years old some of you?!?!? Why????
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Anonymous answered
Well I'm 13 and lost mine in march of 2010...so I gues it all depends on when you are ready...
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Anonymous answered
I'm 14 going on 15 and I recently lost my virginity it really wasn't worth it and I wish I would have waited but oh well like I always say "no regrets just lessons learned" because you can't take back the past but you can control your future but I would say that most girls lose it at around ages 13-? Maybe 19.
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Anonymous answered
I'm 13 and I havent had sex yet . . . I wana wait till I found the 1 I'm in love with . . . I've never even kissed a boy I'm scared to and I know I will someday I think teens sould wait till the found the 1 and b happy with what they did
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Anonymous answered
I think it all depends on who you hang out with and where you live.  I'm about to turn 20 and I'm still a virgin yeeey!! It makes me feel special because it seems that I'm the only one....I look around and all the girls are doing it.  Honestly I think I would've of been weak prey in my 14-17 years, but after I hit 18 I thought more maturely.  "is he thinking along the same lines as I am...." or "is it just sex to him.." Girls out there, please think deeply before that big step. Yeah maybe everybody is doing it, but that's their loss. I want to be married a virgin....c'mon THAT guy will defenetly deserve it....he's willing to leave the single life. AND now days is hard to find a guy who wants to marry...
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Beth Jones answered
Now days the kids are doing things at a younger age but I would say around 13-15 maybe.
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beauty girl answered
Am a 12 year old girl,, And I don't plan on loosing my virginity till am at least bout 22 years old and dats 10 yrs from now! :-)
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I was 25. It was my birthday. My then boyfriend and I had been together about a year. He decided to seduce me as a special birthday present. At first, I was hesitant, since I was raised to save myself for marriage, but he was kind, persistent, sweet, romantic, gentle, and respectful of my feelings.

Eventually I couldn't resist anymore. I was sacred, nervous, uncomfortable, but exhilarated, happy, excited, and curious. I started to say no and it came out OK. I was surprised, but I knew it was time. I was ready, due to his persistence. I actually found myself looking forward to it.

I sent him out of the room and stripped my way up the stairs. I left a boot at the foot of the stairs, another a couple of steps up, my dress a couple of steps above that, my pantyhose above those, my bra at the top of the stairs, and my panties on the doorknob of his bedroom.

He found me completely naked on the bed, wrapped in a sheet. He quickly stripped down to his undies, which I removed shortly. We had some foreplay, then gave each other oral for a while, then he went inside and we had sex for about an hour. He was very good! It was passionate and romantic, about as good as a girl's first time can be.
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Anonymous answered
I was 11 and began having active sex regularly. I am 30 now and I have very normal sexual relations with my husband of 10 years. I remember being the aggressor and being offended when I was told I was too little or that I shouldn't sit on their lap,  or whatever,. I don't know why I was so excitable and eager at such an age. Although most of my experiences were with men in thier 30's and 40's, I was never pressured and I was never raped or molested. Now I feel like I wish I had kept a journal so I could remember why I wanted it so bad. I guess I was just meant to start early...lol?
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Meta Forrest answered
There is no average age people lose their virginity whenever they are ready to and not just do it out of curiosity. Better to be in an established relationship with a loving partner to enjoy it . I was engaged to be married and 22 years old when I first made love.
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Anonymous answered
I think that a girl should stay a virgin until she is married. (that was the old custom)
The Hymen is a seal that is placed there by God and if you have slept with a man before marriage then you  need to get right with God.
Some women think that sleeping around is a joke but it's not right & I think marriage is sacred.
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Anonymous answered
I am 15 about to be 16 and I think girl lose their virginity at the age of 13-17. I had sex like 5 times already, and I don't know if I'm a virgin or not I never started to bleed but I think its best for girls to wait until they are older and know what they are doing
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Anonymous answered
Hey look I think you should lose it at around 16 I'm turning 13 and don't even think about losing it even though I wanted to I mean its out there and real and by the way guys do you really have sex with girls that are 13 I mean if my gf asked me to have sex I would say no
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Delaney Brigman answered
Well, I lost my virginity at 15. But before I had sex I made sure that he was not looking for only sex, that I really wanted to have sex with him, that I loved this guy, and that I would be with him for a long time. We have been dating for 3 years now.
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Anonymous answered

I am 55  and still a virgin. This is because I have never been married and I believe that sex is for marriage only.

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Anonymous answered
Hmm whenever and who ever they want to with,I did mine at the age o 21 one but sadly it turned out to be-with the wrong guy.
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Anonymous answered
I'm 13 years old and I'm not a virgin. I would not say I'm happy about it but I can't take back something that all ready happen! All I have to say is make sure your ready!!
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Anonymous answered
I think it's not normal if you loose your virginity under the age of 14, I think it's wrong your still a Kid and it's like taking your whole childhood away...thats my opinion anyway.

I think the average age is between  15 and 18.
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Anonymous answered
I am 19 and I am waiting for a bit longer although I have strong feelings of my 5 year relationship
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Crystal Smith answered
I was 13 when I lost mine now I'm 17 and pregnant with twin baby girls and getting married later this year!!
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Sharon Anderson answered
I'd say about 13-17. But you should wait until you are married. There's a common end result to losing virginity among girls. They regret it!! So be patient and hold out for Mr. Right. You'll be happy and God will be happy!
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Anonymous answered
I just turned 12 and me and my boyfriend had sex but serously you sould wait I made the wrong disicion! Now I am grounded for 1 year...
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Jeremy Whitley answered
Loss of virginity is something that should be special and to many people it is considered as such. However, there are circumstances that are beyond our control that take this decision away from us. Rape at a young age is the number one cause for losing one's virginity prematurely. Generally speaking, women wish to hold on to their virginity until marriage, or at least that is the way it should be. If women can be the strong ones and wait until marriage, conversely, men would also have to wait.

For homosexual males and females, it appears that the age that virginity is taken tends to be much a much younger one; ranging from thirteen to seventeen in most cases. This is the result of being closeted and trying to find oneself by utilizing the internet and chatting with individuals who are possibly slightly older, and more experienced, in some cases. These teenagers feel that if they want to be accepted by the older person and the community that sex is the way to go. In the last ten years or so, it seems that heterosexual youth are following the same path due to pressures from television and other outside sources to just do it.
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Anonymous answered
Most people lose their Virginity when they feel that it is the right time for them to lose it. Most lose their virginity to the people that they love or the one that they plan on spending the rest of their life with. Even a lot of people lose their virginity when they get married. However some teenagers they lose their virginity because they're curious or because of peer pressure, but that leads to other things also.
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Anonymous answered
People loose it at all different ages. I'm 14 and I lost mine on my B-day ,haha birthday sex. Oh and just a tip: Turning all the lights off will make you less nervous and you will have like more confidence because like I told my boyfriend I was uncomfortable with my body and so we turned all the lights off and I felt better that he wasnt paying attention to my body haha. It was kinda funny tho because hes way taller than me and I'm so short =]
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kimi answered
Hello well all girls are different so there are many different ages. Some girls wait for the right man to lose there virginity, some wait until there married. Most girls these days lose there virginity at around about 13 years old to fit in with there friends and all the girls at school. Hope that helps you.
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Anonymous answered
I started having sex when I was 11. It was all my choice and I don't consider that it was wrong because I am the one who wanted it in the first place. I had sex very often after I started and I would feel hurt when someone would infer I was to little for sex. Most of the guys were in their 30's and 40's. I am 30 now and don't regret it at all for some reason. I think that maybe I was just meant to have sex then?
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Sapiens answered
If you are looking for statistics, I can't help you. If you are looking for advice on when to lose your virginity (if it is based on statistics, I can't help), I say it is completely your own opinion. Losing virginity at age 12 and so is perfectly fine, in ancient times, girls get married at around 13. But it all depends on you're decision. It's your life (don't mess up).
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Anonymous answered
I'm still a virgin and I'm 13, I have been wanting it so badly though, so much that I can't sill havnt lost it, any way I think that if you like the guy (or girl) go ahead but make sure and I repeat MAKE SURE you use protection. I know that you thinks its wrong that I havnt no, but I can't help the way I feel so don't be a hater about it.

-Rose (p.s not my real name but I want it to be)
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Anonymous answered
I Am 13 Nd Almost Lose My Virginity But Then We Broke Up Nd It Made Me Think Of what Wld Happen If I Did. I Wana Wait Til I Find The One I Really Love But Not Til I'm Married! I Feel you Shld Have Sex At Least Once before Marriage
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s bonin answered
In most cultures when a female starts her period she would be married to an older man and start concieving. For a male you were a man when you grew a beard you would be able to marry but had a lot to prove to the father of the female. in our society we are simliar but perfer the male to be older, in some cases there are men that are in their 30's still living with their parents and single, some women are in their 40's doing the same thing. The best answer is to at least be able to take care of yourself by yourself before taking a chance of having to take care of a child, Please.
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Anonymous answered
I lost my virginity at 19 I think the right time is between ages 16-19 thats my opinion but sometimes it just happens.
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Anonymous answered
I'm in year9 and a girl in my year had sex last year and that was a big deal, some parents wouldnt let their daughters go to her house anymore, no one else in my year has lost their virginity
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Monica Lett answered
Well I was 10 when I lost mine and im14  my boyfriendand I are still together.You shoud wait until your 13-17.
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I havent even kissed a guy but I really like this guy and some people say he likes me but I don't know and I dream about him all the time and I talk in my sleep about him and I think about kissing him and having sex with him and I'm 14 turning 15 so I don't know
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There is no usually... Its Normally different for every kid... Don't worry bout it... It will happen when it happens
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I'm 12 turning 13 and my boyfriend keeps pressuring me 2 have sex but girls/boys are different because guys just want 2 have sex and girls want 2 wait for the right guy and the right time I would say around 13-16 people start having sex
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Me and my friends talk about plowing chicks all the time. I would have sex with any hot chick anytime
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I'm 14 and proudly still a virgin (: All of my friends that have had sex are all split up with there "ill always be with him" boyfriends. Every one of my friends that has had sex is!
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Most girls that I know first had sex between the ages of 14 and 19. I'm 16 and lost my virginity earlier this year. I used to think it was wrong to have sex so young, but I think it depends on how responsible/mature the person is. Personally, I don't regret it. But I'm not really a... Spiritual person? For me, "virgin" is just a definition and not a special state or anything. It's all relative.
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Meta Forrest answered
It really depends on each individual girl There is no correct/right age. I was 24 when I lost my virginity to my fiancee simply because I loved him and had  wanted to show him that I was committed to him. It will happen when the girl feels ready
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No, the people who are saying that it is usual to lose their virginity at 35-40, I, personally think is wrong. At the moment I am 15 and still a virgin. But I'm deeply in love with my girlfriend and she's a virgin too, when we first started dating she said that she'd never have sex until at that age because of all the teenage pregnancies, STD's etc... I totally agree with this but more recently when we have been kissing we are getting closer and closer to having sex, but each time managing to restrain ourselves; so I am going to say the average age for sex, considering most of my friends have lost theirs, is 16 or 17. Of course it varies though
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idalis longria answered
I don't know I lost mine wit a boy I was wit a year I did it da weekend that was my 13b-day an 1year but 2 months later I fund out he wa cheatin bt I don't regret it because all my friends lost dars at da same age or younger bt where only with there bf 4 alil but if you can't kiss him den don't bt I got 2 say da same day we made out 4 da 1st time was da same day we had sex soo I don't know just wait aleast like 5 months an den maybe
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You are all talking about bull carp to have kiss and sex with girl and guys come on .. Beczo in your culture and religion sex is not a sin even if you see the ratios of divorced so it s 54.9 % in usa in 2007 canada 40 % and uk 30% so and in norway ist about 38 % so I am just asking one question your ages is about 13 some are 14 so how can you justifying that this guy and girl is a right fro you and you are about to lose your virginity?even you people does not knwo what is love you just used a girl fro sex and one and after 1 .2 ,3 year you find another girl fro havng sex so its just a bull crtap and nothing
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I think in a recent issue of Seventeen Magazine, it was said that the average age in girls is 17 years old. However, I cannot tell you about men and I cannot be certain of the number of girls.
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I'm 13 turning 14 an I'm NOT a virgin I've been with my boyfriend since 4th grade, and I lost mine at my 13th b-day party. So I'd have to say 13-18
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I lost mine at age 12 with a 20 year old she was hot and said I was the biggest she ever saw
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I lost mine at 7 due to child rape from my teacher but would much prefer to loose it around now (15).
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K so I was thinking bout loosing my virginity to my boyfriend who is 17 and will graduate this year and I am 15 so what do you guys think I should do?
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I wa s13 when  I  lost it but most people ist at 16-18                                                       ;
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I know someone who by 6th grade, already had 6 pregnancy scares, and 3 abortions...it's disgusting. I'm 14 and still a virgin...like more then a virgin I havent even kissed anyone yet.  Half the girls...well more than half the girls in my town aren't virgins.
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Any age above 13 till mariage. I'm twelve turning 13 and planning to lose my virginity with my BF.
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I'm loseing mine when my mom gose to work on friday next week I can't wait  oh and I'm 13
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I'm loosing mine on my 12th bday next sat! BIRTHDAY SEX!!! Yahh babyyy!!!! CAN'T WAIT!!!!
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I wud say around 13 I want to lose my virginity now cus me and my boyfriend want to have a baby soooo bad but he said he's not gunna force me so I don't know if want to yet
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I'm 12 about to be 13 I'm not a virgin I did it with  a guy that I was with for 1 year and wer still tiogether me and hym have sex regularluy now
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I em 13 and I lost my virginity wta guy who wsnt werth it... I wish I couldve waited till marriage... Bt if nt atleast high skewl wer I found sum1 worht doi git wth.. Ths guy wus justa douche bag and nw he almst gt me prego. And I'm ONLII 13!! Girl yu can wait till high skewl at the mst.. .listen to all these ppl...
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Those of you who think the average age that people lose their virginity is 30s or 40s thats just plain stupid I personally lost my virginity when I was 16 to a boy that I loved I don't regret it at all its a great way to show that special person how much you care about them but sometimes sex is just sex and sex isn't always the right thing for some. I have a friend who is saving herself for marriage because she made a promise to god but any way the average age I would say is 15-19 I know a lot of guys don't want to go to collage a virgin and I would say guys lose their virginity sooner than girls.
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Okay I want to know how old these people are saying 13 - 15. 13?? Really?? What is the world coming too??
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Ha ha ha, reading some of these posts is ridiculous. Ooooh god will cry if you have sex wah wah wah. The fact is that sex is fun. Start whenever you want and enjoy it. It doesn't have to be about being head over heels in love with someone.
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Well I'm 15 n I have been eaten out by a guy n a grl n ive fingered a girl n have been fingered by both n ive given head n eaten her out
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Most normal girls go their entire lives without losing their virginity. However, if a girl loses her virginity, it can be gained back to some extent by studying spirituality.

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