If You're A Man That Wears Women's Panties, Where Do You Buy Your Panties? Do You Have A Spouse Or Girlfriend? Does She Know And Approve Or Does It Turn Her Off? I'm Married And My Wife Loves Seeing Me In Panties And Other Lingerie Items.

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I've bought panties online and through catalogs, these are the easiest ways to get your panties, but also can be the most disappointing, as you cannot see the merchandise up close before purchasing, and the selection can be very limited. Store shopping is the best. I tend to prefer the self checkout lanes at large stores, such as walmart or fred meyer. There isn't very much of a focus on you by other shoppers on what you are purchasing. I also prefer to shop for my undies soon after a store opens or near the time for a store to close. There isn't very many women in the intimates section during these hours to stare and wonder what you are doing, and you'll get through the checkout lanes fast too. I've also just marched right on into the women's section at times, and just started shopping for panties-no matter who was in there at the time. I do like to take my time when I shop for my panties though, I know what I like and want a good deal on the price too, so I check out the clearance rack all the time too. If you aren't uptight about buying panties in front of others, then Macy's, JC Penney's, and Kohl's are good places to shop. They stock a lot of pantie styles and colors.

I am married, my wife doesn't see anything wrong with me wearing panties, 'theyre just underwear'. She does request that I don't wear anything that is bright pink, flowery, or too lacy and that I buy my own panties. My favorite color is lavender or dark pink with lace trim and my favorite panties are Vanity Fair Ravissant briefs and Hanes Skimp Skamp briefs.
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I wear panties and other lingerie items in the bedroom, my girlfriend is really turned on by it.  As for the comment from Alohamama, Just because a guy wants to wear something silky under his jeans while he's swinging a sledgehammer and doing other "manly" things does not make him any less of a man.  I am not defined by my clothes, ESPECIALLY the ones you don't see.  I wear jeans, flannel shirts (occasionally and when its cold) and boots.  I'm a man, I do man things, I drink beer, I hang out with the guys.  You wouldn't know I like to wear panties unless I showed you, or told you.
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Lee Jay answered
I buy mine at the same stores women shop in, either  going shopping with my wife or by my self.  And if a sales clerk comes over to help, asking who they are for, I just tell her that that they are for me.  So yes my wife knows, encouraging me and being the one that got me to wear panties full time starting back when we were dating.  And yes it turns her on, seeing me wearing sexy lingerie.
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Well you don't need to be muscular to be a man neither do you need to be doing the manly thing of only going on top boring!!! Just because a male likes to wear lingerie doesn't make him less of man it makes him unique as is everyone, and a brave shining star for a last someone been very honest about their sexuality and not hiding behind closed doors this makes for a happy long lasting relationship as you and your wife have been honest and very open with each other which will only make you stronger.

Oh and it would be turn me on as its so very naughty.
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Mike
Mike commented
Hi, thanks for your answer jojoloz . I see your a leo too. This subject doesn't seem to have any middle ground. Thats ok . I love the way they fit and feel, my wife is cool with it so I say..... Panties for everyone ! (LOL !!)
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I buy my own @ any department store I see something I like. I own and wear only Panties for underwear and have been for years. My wife doesn't really like it but if I don't wear anything real girly she's OK with it.
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I buy my panties from retail stores, it was a little ( actually VERY) embarrassing to begin with but now I don't worry anymore, if I go to the panty section in a retail store and their is a female shopping for panties she will quite often give me a dirty look and then leave, I don't care if she sees what panties I am buying so what's the big deal if I see what she is buying?
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I've had the same experience. If you loiter in the panty section it will make the women in that area uncomfortable. I have spent enough time in the panty sections, that I know what panty style and fabric I want. I like to take my time shopping, but if women are present, I will just march into the intimates section, grab what I know I like, and then leave. Women end up watching what I am picking out, since they realize that I am not focused on them; I can shop in this section too!
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I buy panties by my self and with my wife she will even show my some she thinks I would like we often get 1 for me and a matching 1 for her mine size 8 hers size 7 we shop Kohl's,Macy's the Jockey outlet and jcpenneys.The last time we were at Kohl's the young 20 something gal that checked us out said to my wife you know you got 2 different sizes there and she smiled and said you I know one is for him.T he clerk looked at me and smiled I just smiled back and felt just a little turned on.
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I buy my panties any place Most women just look at you but I have had one say ! You must look cute in
those?I just smiled and said I hope so.and left .there are more men dressing in panties and other woman's
clothes then you know.so I say panties forever
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I wear panties 24/7 and have for many years now, its just underwear you know, very comforting both in fit and emotionally, I like to shop and buy my own, there is nothing that says we can't shop in the lingerie sections, besides what is the big deal? Women wear our shirts and jeans frequently and nothing is said.
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I'm married , my wife knows I wear panties , but she is not thrilled. Or turned on. She knows I wear womens jeans . Her feelings are the same as above. At first she was hurt { may-be still is } but I like the look , feel, and style of womens clothes . And I buy my own ,she deals with it .does not mean that I am any less a man . I know what I like and wear it. I also openly shop every where, and don't care who see"s me or likes it . I get looks and comments you wouldnt believe but I will always be me...greg
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I wear women panties and wife approved, I purchase panties at sears K-mart and other quality stores mainly. I find that V I P panties fit the best.
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I just go into any department store and shop for my panties and bra's just like any other article of clothing. It makes me feel more femmine and I love the way other women look at me.
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I agree with AlohaMama, except I think that women should act feminine (as I define it). I can't really stand women that do masculine things (as I define it), like wearing pants, or cutting there hair short, or, this one really bugs me, being assertive, independent beings.
Instead, they should be coerced through the means of subtle negative reinforcements to act as I say, and not how they want to.
I can tell you right now that I would hate seeing my girlfriend wearing boyshorts or boxers! I want a woman to look and act as a woman (as I define it).
To each his own on this one.....but for me ...give me a rigidly defined feminine woman!
(O.K. Now I need a cold shower.) LOL
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I only buy at victoria secret . I am married for 22 years and we shop together for lingerie, she doesnt like it when I wear bras and panties at home but doesnt care if I do outside the home . .
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My wife loves that I have a female side and buys panties
for me //she/we paint our nails the same shade
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I buy my panties at Walmart or the like. I would like to go to department store but am a little afraid. Did have a women at walmart "bag" a couple of panties that I had picked out she didnt say a word.
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I found a Walmart about 20 miles from home with a self check-out. I really like that, I wish I could muster the courage and patience to really take the time to shop.. And find the stuff that I like at that store. Most of the time want to hurry and get out!

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I felt the same way at first when I started buying panties for myself but now I don't care what people think when I am shopping for women's clothes. I actually like buying good quality panties from La Senza or La Vie en Rose. You just have to quit thinking what other people will think of you. I have gone out in public crossdressed many times. I even had one woman compliment on what I was wearing and she also told me that I had nice legs.  I was also wearing heels that day too. She told me that I pulled that off really well so if I can do it there is no reason why anybody can't. Just quit being bashful
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Vicki Kelly answered
Whew!   I just got a visual, with that one.
I can tell you right now that I would hate seeing my husband in ladies' undergarments!  I want a man to look  and act like a man (as I define it.)
To each his own on this one.....but for me ...give me the muscular, strong, buff man!
(O.K. Now I need a cold shower.)   LOL

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