Do Women Like Men To Wear Panties?

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Nathaniel Hobby Profile
Nathaniel Hobby answered
As with so much to do with the relations between the sexes, the simple answer is that some do and some don’t.

In general there are two quite different reasons why men might wear women’s panties.  The first is because they find male underwear uncomfortable and badly fitting.  The second is because some men are attracted to women’s clothing, often for sexual reasons.

So what do women make of this? Judging by the frequency with which this question comes up on the internet and elsewhere, this is not an obscure issue but one that affects many men and their partners. 

The first reason, that of design and comfort is one with which many men will sympathise. TV presenter Jeremy Paxman famously complained in a press interview that Marks & Spencers, the high street chain well known for its men’s underwear, seemed to have poor design and ‘lack of support’.  This complaint may well be borne out by the fact that the chain store keeps on changing its underwear designs, trying new fittings.

In these circumstances, it is hardly surprising that some men prefer the kind of silk briefs usually favoured by women. To which their spouses may well not object.

The other reason for wearing women’s underwear is a rather different question. According to one anonymous male who prefers women’s underwear because he is attracted to cross dressing, women react in widely different ways to his behaviour.  He reports that some, such as his mother and first girl friend, have reacted with disgust.  Others, he says, were hesitant at first, but came around in varying degrees, forming a kind of middle ground. "They didn't make a big deal out of it”, he says.
The third group, which includes his present wife, is willing to buy lingerie for both herself and him and enjoys the different kind of sex life that his cross-dressing provides.
Liza Ling Profile
Liza Ling answered
As a women, I encourage men to wear panties. Me, as a woman had
enjoyed all of the good feeling of wearing sexy panties and tiny thongs
every day..
And I think men should enjoy those feelings too, besides, I
see men wearing women's thongs or panties is very sexy. I love men
wearing women's undies!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I don't have a problem at all.Men can wear what ever they like .women should respect what men like to wear.Men don't complain what women wear
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Anonymous answered
I love my plain Jockey pants, and I think it would be fun for him to wear panties. My husband has tried a few I have gotten him, but the gusset needs to be wide to hold him properly. It is rather a turn-on to see him enjoy the smooth fabric next to his body. Panties have an advantage for men who have worn cotton briefs, for jock itch never happens with nylon panties. So girls if you want a happy, clean and fun husband get him some cute panties and he will be more loving and fun-Susan
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Underwear is underwear! If men want the comfort of them they should wear  them.
Why not have just unisex under wear.
Jan
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Anonymous commented
Cause you'd have to pull them down to take a whiz
mek nic
mek nic commented
You mean you never just put aside and went? Oh thats right you would have to stand on your head! Lol.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
There are many important problems is this world to worry  other than thinking if some men wear women´s cloths
give me a break!!! If you are a man and want to wear it , do it!!! Don´t worry about others, feel free!!!! Be free!!!!, your body is yours, only yours!!!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Generally, No. Many woman think that if a man puts on something feminine, that somehow the garment has removed a percentage of that man's manhood from him. He is somehow less than a whole man in their opinion. In my opinion, it is all about perception. A man is still going to act like
himself, regardless of what he is wearing. I think if more women would help their men explore their 'softer' side, I think she would find that her man would be more attentive to her as well as being very grateful to her for her help in finding acceptable panties for him.
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Then when there done they just may find they have a stick to lead them to what ever they want him to do. ANYTHING!!!! Here that ladies!!!!!!!!!!!! You have something thats gets him so throben hard he will do anything for you since it takes him to the edge.and only can finish him smake his hand away if he wants to end it. Have him put pants on wearing them all you have to do is give a litte rub and hes up and thoben again the wife wore me out at 7 times the 8th time she slide down on me
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Anonymous answered
Some do and some don't.  Some women are threatened by their men wearing panties. They feel that they getting something less than a whole 'man' if a male does wear undies. Also, it questions their own femininity if their man is doing this. It can be shocking and confusing for a woman who is accustomed to seeing men only in a certain way. It all boils down to what a man and a woman are willing to accept in their intimate lives together.

I do wear undies. I like the fabrics, and have come to like the colors, but this doesn't make me less than a man. I will fight for my country, defend my family, answer to my wife, correct my children, follow the law, and do what is right to the best of my ability. That is what I consider to be the marks of a man.
Lee Jay Profile
Lee Jay answered
My hubby does, like me it makes him feel sexy and it turns me on!  In fact on certain days we wear matching lingerie to work ... That way both of us know exactly what the other is wearing and toward the end of the work day I will call him up at his office, describing in sexy tones what he is wearing in detail and how sexy and good it feels which turns him on for a good time when we both get home!
Lee Jay Profile
Lee Jay answered
My wife does, finding it sexy and we have bought several bra and panty sets so we can wear matching lingerie.  And some of our women friends know that with my wife's encouagement she got me to wear panties and often a bra 24-7 and they think it is great.
ken essex Profile
ken essex answered
Most women do, and those who are against men wearing panties don't know what they are missing
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I keep my husband in  sheer white lacy panties all the time. It keeps him in line , he does not have any male pants as I threw them all out and replaced them with lovely feminine panties. He didnt like them at first but as I gave him the option of wearing them or leave  he made the choice, so now he wears them   I wax his body hair regularly so  around the house in just his tee shirt and panties he looks really cute, He doesnt like the waxing and always ends up crying so I tell his to stop being a baby as women get waxed and don't cry.Ive warned him if he persists in making a fuss I'll put him in nappy and plastic panties,- then he'll have something to cry about!
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Anonymous answered
My husband wears panties because I make him , I know he is unlikely to try hitting on some young think in the office if  he is wearing pink lacy panties. I buy them for him so he has no choice and I only ever buy pink ones. He had a thing about my pubic hair when we got married five years ago and used to shave me each week, I didnt mind as it added to our sex life and after he always gave me amazing oral, now I have reversed the tables and shave him but he doesn't get the oral , he just gets a smooth tush to go in his panties.
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Pink Penny answered
It has been my experience that most women I have dated do not have a problem with me wearing panties as long as I let know up front.
Panties Guy Profile
Panties Guy answered
I've been wearing panties for years. My wife likes to see my "cute butt" as she calls it, in my thongs, and especially boy short styles. We both usually wear only panties around our home when we are alone (most of the time), so we both wear what is comfortable. My old cotton 'tightie-whities' did nothing for my wife; now she loves how sexy I look! Why should she be the only one who is comfortable and sexy at home. So yes some woman really do find men wearing panties attractive, playful and fun. Me and my wife visit this community mwpclub.com a few times a week and we chat with lots of other guys in panties that want to tell there wife or girlfriend, many have been able to finally tell there wife or girlfriend that they like wearing panties and what a difference it has made in there life.
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Anonymous answered
I make my husband wear pretty panties 24 7 , sometimes if he will have enough outer clothes on to cover the evidence he is wearing a matching bra. And lace top stockings ,, this give me a greta control over him . He does what ever I say when ever I say . He is always excited  in his pretty panties and is always eager to please , . So I love men in panties I think all men should have to wear them when they step out of line and act like a jerk
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I had to ask him many times if he would consider wearing my panties
now we both shave down and panty up
now we are intimate
ken essex Profile
ken essex answered
My wife enjoys me wearing panties and turns her on seeing them especially when I bend over or strut thru the house.
Lee Jay Profile
Lee Jay answered
You bet, some like my wife do!  She finds it sexy and she loves seeing me in panties and bras, knowing I am in-touch with my femme side.
Lee Jay Profile
Lee Jay answered
I disagree with Will ... My wife doesn't force me, but she encourages me to wear sexy lingerie.  Of course she knows I enjoy it as much as she does, knowing it excites me and it turns her on ... And of course I am eager to please.  The fact that over time she got rid of all of my male undies, leaving me no choice other than go commando or to wear panties ... Well sure she has gained control over me, especially what I wear.  But that is agreeable to me.
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Paul LaChance answered
Several years ago I had a few pair of mens briefs (without A fly) that resembled my wifes panties I grabbed a pair out of the laundy basket slipped them on threw my pants on and went to work. I notice imediately they felt great, by mid morning I notice I had not had to pull them up because they were creeping down over my butt. They didn't bind around the legs and the waist band didnot roll down and they gave great support. They felt fabulous! Over the last several years a tried briefs boxers and boxer briefs they all had one thing in common - torcher for the male anatomy. Today I made the big decision. I went to a Victoria Secret bought 5 pair of black high leg briefs ( no lace ) and put a pair on. I have enjoyed the first day of comfort in as long as I can remember. It was like taking a rock out of my shoe. The only thing that even comes close in mens briefs is the jockey elegance on second thought it isn't that close. Women you have to decide if your guy wears lace and bras but don't judge him if he wear panties life is to short to wear mens they are horrible."
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Anonymous answered
I make my husband wear panties , it keeps him in line. I only have to mention telling his work mates and he does as he is told. I take him and buy his panties white transparent nylon ones He loves these (I don't think so) ,sometimes holding them to him this usually embarrasses him especially when I tell the assistant they are for him to wear.I make sure he gives up his trousers when in the house he  just wears a small teeshirt and "his panties ". He sulks so sometimes a sharp slap to his girlie bottom usually remedies the situation. I have told him he abides by my rules or he can go, hes not man enough to leave so I have my fun with him and humiliate him.
ken essex Profile
ken essex answered
I have come to the conclusion that people wear what they want, as long as they are comfortable with it.
I will keep wearing my women panties and enjoy them with my wife approval. Must also admit wear women panties due to other issues, men just don't strech enough for my needs
Shannon Profile
Shannon answered
I'm sure there are some wives out there who wouldn't mind it, or may even like it... But then again some wives may be freaked out or disturbed by it. You're best bet would be to talk to your wife, that's my opinion.
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Lee Jay answered
I am the wife of Lee and when he told me the question, do ladies like men in panties, I said I wanted to answer that.  My answer is definitely yes ... The more feminine the better and especially with my husband wearing other items of lingerie, like a bra, stockings with a garter belt, the better.  Now we also have some special women friends who, when I told them how sexy Lee looks in lingerie, they got excited.  So when they were over they insisted they wanted to see, so I had him pull down his pants and it turned them on too.  Yes, not all ladies like men in panties, but there are still a number of us who do!
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ken essex answered
My wife loves seeing me in nice silky panties. When asked if I could purchase women panties she didn"t hesitate saying yes. It adds to our sex life and how we feel. I only wear silk or nylon panties and we do have several matching pairs
Diana Howard Profile
Diana Howard answered
I would think most women would think it is silly. I've always thought a man looked good in Y fronts and then I met a man who wore boxer shorts. So I have come to the conclusion that it depends on the man what looks good
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Some women like it some do not , My wife knows she don't care either way . She would rather I did not wear the panties . I love her and only her . But I also love to wear nice satin panties
Lee Jay Profile
Lee Jay answered
Can't speak for most women, but my wife loves it ... Seeing me wearing panties and a bra turns her on.
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Anonymous answered
As with all things in life there are a wide range of opinions on most topics. Many men have noiodea whether their partners approve or disprove of them wearing panties; because of their own fear of humilation, outrage or other negative reaction. I kept my panty wearing a secret for tens of years. Eventually I told my story to my wife and while she was momeetarily shocked, she understood. I am now allowed to wear conservative womens panties. The however is, our relationship in the bedroom is greatly enhanced.
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Anonymous answered
My personal experience is that some women are accepting and other women are not accepting of me wearing women's panties.   I am a disappointed hetero man looking for a special lady who would accept and approve of my desire to feel sexy and wonderful.   There is no other motive in wearing them, just that they are prettier and sexier, and they feel so wonderful to wear.
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AJ answered
About 99% of the girls I have known, know that I wear thong panties and they just love it! They always want to see what I am wearing each day so I will either show them or they just walk up to me without saying anything and look for themselves. I am always wearing shorts so it is pretty easy access for them. I love it!
Courtney Wilson Profile
Courtney Wilson answered
Personally, I don't. I think its really weird...
I guess it depends on what you like on a guy, we all have our own opinions.
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Panties Guy answered
All guys love panties, some just enjoy seeing them while others also enjoy the feel of them. Some also enjoy wearing them. Wearing panties does not make you gay or bisexual, fact is most men who wear panties are straight. You are not a mistake or a disgrace, wearing panties is perfectly normal and fine, everyone has something different that excites them and you should not feel bad because of this. There are LOTS more guys out there that wear panties than you think, you are not alone. There is even a place for guys who like to wear panties, its mwpclub.com a great place to find lots of answers to questions and a great community to visit, its lots of fun. Its nice to be able to see that there are so many other guys that enjoy wearing panties. And there are girls out there who actually get turned on by guys wearing panties, I have chatted with them at that site, a few had a bigger panty fetish than me. Finding the right girl takes time and be open and honest with her and you will find the right one who enjoys that you wear panties.
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Anonymous answered
I like to keep my man in his little pink panties as it stops him straying, he's hardly going to hit on a girl if he's wearing girly pink satin panties is he? He does not own any boxers as I got rid of them when we got married, he soon learnt who was in control, if he gets lippy I call my sister and between us we have him across the table take his trousers off and wack his bottom with a paddle. He gets his trousers back when he goes to work, I make sure he is well  humiliated having to walk around the house in just his panties.
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Humiliated? That would make me so throben hard it would both of you in one sitting and you 2 would be the ones saying no more please take them off! But they sure sound like nice ones
Rodney James
Rodney James commented
You sound like alot of fun! And I am sure that would keep him happy and satisfied in your marriage:) I know it would me! I have two female friends that want to dress mee up as a woman and I can't wait because it will be so humiliating and such a turn on.
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Anonymous answered
I guess it's the womans choice if he can wear them or not
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Anonymous answered
Most women do not approve of men wearing panties, because I think it is that, "men should not wear women clothing and women should not wear men clothing", the Bible says.  That is fine, They should just start making men underwear like they do women, same material, style, variety, colors and etc.  Men have very little say in  there clothing, all dull and uncomfortable.  So. Men wear Panties but Men Panties. That way nothing is wrong at all with it.
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Truthfully, there isn't much that a guy can wear to make him feel sexy.  Panties do this!  I feel sexy, a little kinky, and it's a fun way to enjoy the day.

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Every woman (and there have been many)  I have been intimate with has thought that wearing panties was sexy and a turn on for them.  They even bought lingerie for me.  The woman I am currently involved with helped me pick out panties online to order--and then suggested matching bras and a beautiful peignoir set as well.  Our sex life is fantastic and we both enjoy this little kink. 

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Anonymous answered

i buy my man panties because I love him in them and he loves how they feel. It brings out the softer side in him which I love.

Solid pink are my favorite on him. He loves the feel as I do.

Terry

Matthew Profile
Matthew answered
It probably all depends upon the woman.  I am guessing the majority of woman do not want men wearing their underwear.
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Kyoko Katayama answered
I like SOME men in SOME panties.  But they mostly have to have a trim, slim body otherwise, it looks gross.
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Mark Hakuski answered
I'd wear em if my girlfriend asked me to. I think she would never force the issue, on occassion she took a few pair of my lo-rise briefs and wore them for a little while to show me how my underwear fit her. It is a big turn on for me, I love to wear lo-rise/bikini and jockstrap thong styles, you know the Jockey fashion ones made for us guys. For me they are the most comfortable.
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Lianna Lins answered
Ew. Disgusting, no. In my opinion at least. And hopefully the majority of women will agree with me. It completely does destroy their masculinity in my mind.
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Alex Dobbs answered
My girlfriends bigger and stronger than me she makes me wear pink panties and tells me all the time that she's in charge so you it's wierd.
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Peggy Burtwell answered
I was forever wearing my husbands boxers and t-shirts but if he even suggested wearing my undies - I would've died laughing and he wouldn't have liked the idea at all!!!! He used to like watching me put on make-up (especially lipstick - I would tease him unmercifully).
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Kyoko Katayama answered
Yes, because it makes them think that they are with another woman and all women are lesbians.
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Kyoko Katayama commented
Yes, that has been my experience.
mek nic
mek nic commented
Slick baby you just get a surprize one day and be ready for the ride of your life. You would then keep several pair around just for you.
Rodney James
Rodney James commented
That is somewhat true but not completely. The females who want to dress me up play around with each other.
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Jasmine Haha answered
I don't. I think it's freaky. Guys who do girl things are just starving for attention (maybe that's he point) and I don't like it when people starve for attention.
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Joan answered
I can tell you that this is one lady who would never in a million years go out with a man who wore the same panties that I do.  :)    Seriously, I want a man that is all man not one that is confused about his manhood to the point he is wearing underwear that belongs on a woman's body.  How do you spell WIMP?

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