Why Are So Many Women Willing To Give Their Money To Men?

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Carla Dixon Profile
Carla Dixon answered
I don't give men s**t. They do things 4 me. Its so many women giving men money, that these men expect ALL women 2 do it. Its funny how women say its wrong 4 women 2 use men but its okay 4 a man 2 use women. The women who say that are the ones who are getting used by these no good men. I think women who give men money are either unattractive, over weight, have low self esteem or just like showering their men with gifts 2 prove 2 other women they have the money 2 do it. Okay, you might have the money 2 give a man but what are you getting in return? NOTHING.! If a man genuinely loves you, he would not use you. Men prey on women who are gullible. My mother always told me the way you start out with a man is the way you'll end up. If the women loses her job, that very same man will leave her and go find another dummy. Its not that serious 2 be paying a man 4 attention/love. I'm an attractive woman. Men approach me all the time, trying 2 take me out. I don't have 2 give a man money and neither should any other woman. That s**t is crazy as hell 2 me. I feel sorry 4 women who live their lives like that. It will never get better. The man is only in it 4 the money. WAKE UP LADIES AND BUY you SOME CONFIDENCE.....NOT A MAN.! Smfh

P.S. A REAL MAN wouldn't use a woman 4 her money. HE'D GO OUT AND MAKE HIS OWN. And if he truly loved you, he'd cater 2 you. Wine and dine you. So obviously you women don't want a good man. Well, have fun with the bad ones. You have 2 know what you deserve and what your worth, ladies. Until you realize that, you'll always settle for BS. While your dishing out money LIKE your RICH, he's out wearing the clothes you bought him 2 look good 4 another woman. And y'all women wonder why these men act the way they act. Driving y'all cars, got a joint bank account (as if he worked hard and put money into it), coming out yo pocket, paying 4 everything when y'all go out, etc. Its so sad 2 even think about. And a lot of women who give men money let these men treat them like crap. They cheat constantly, physically & verbally abuse them, etc. I'd rather be by myself than 2 go through some s**t like that. You women can't be happy. Its no way. Smh
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Sarah jessica answered
Women who give money to men are doing this just because they love that man immensely and they are dwelling with this misconception that supplying a man with money will hold him back to them till eternity. They also want to show the extent of their love by giving them enormous sums of money. Women are afraid to lose their love partners.
Carla Dixon Profile
Carla Dixon answered
I don't give men anything. They do things for me. It's so many women giving men money, that these men expect ALL women to do it. It's funny how women say its wrong for women to use men but its okay for a man to use women. The women who say that are the ones who are getting used by these no good men. I think women who give men money are either unattractive, over weight, have low self esteem or just like showering their men with gifts to prove to others that they have the money to do it. Men prey on women who are gullible. My mother always told me the way you start out with a man is the way you'll end up. If the women loses her job, that very same man will leave her and go find another dummy. Its not that serious to be paying a man for attention/love. I'm an attractive woman. Men approach me all the time, trying to take me out. I don't have to give a man money and neither should any other woman. That stuff is crazy as hell to me. I feel sorry for women who live their lives like that. I will never get better. The man is only in it for the money. WAKE UP LADIES AND BUY YOU SOME CONFIDENCE.....NOT A MAN.!
P.S. A REAL MAN wouldn't use a woman for her money. HE'D GO OUT AND MAKE HIS OWN. And if he truly loved you, he'd cater to you. Wine and dine you. So obviously you women don't want a good man. Well, have fun with the bad ones. You have to know what you deserve and what your worth, ladies. Until you realize that, you'll always settle for BS.
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Anonymous answered
Some women are just soft hearted, they are actually weak in emotions, worrying that their man will leave them and trying to fulfill the useless man's need. If a man are only interested in taking money from women especially for those who are not even their husband yet, this such man is obviously only for money but not love, they practically do not have dignity, if they truly love the women, they will not do so as it is so embarrass to always keep taking money from a person, especially from their women. No matter how bad the situation would be, if are regard themselves as a MAN, man with dignity will rather borrow money else where from family or friends etc but will certainly not want to be so useless to take money from their love ones. Women, please be wise, understand between love is love, money is money, one day, when all your money are gone, this man will also gone, they will go for new target and you will ended up with broken heart and nothing.
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Anonymous answered
I have done these things and it has gotten me so hurt...I broke up with my boyfriend because of infidelity. And I use to buy him every thing, now I know for a fact he was indeed using me
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Ashish Niraj answered
Women feel need of security and when they choose one guys for them, They don't want to loose them.... For that woman can do anything...even give large sums of money...that's why its easy to exploit woman. But she need to overcome this emotional foolishness and learn to act and behave like man. They should share their money as partner not for security gain (which they call as love).
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No woman should support a man that will not work!!! I dated a guy that ALWAYS asked for money and could not hold a job, because he didn't really want to. If I would have ended up with him, he would have been relying on me 100% financially. I am thankful for my husband who would do anything to support his family. I also helped him financially in small ways when we were dating, but I could tell the difference between a good man that just needed a little help here and there and a complete LOSER just looking for a free ride. We have 3 girls now and he was the only one working after each pregnancy. Today we own a business and he equally carries the workload with me! Thank God for good hearted, loving, working men!!!!!!!!!
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Anonymous answered

For me it was just familiar. I grew up in a house where the women cater to men hand and foot, doing their laundry and making food. My mother even punished me severely if My brother was angry with me. Yea seriously. I didn't realize the patterns with my bf at first, but I knew something was off.

I still be believe he loved me, but I think he is too immature to grow up and be responsible. So I broke it off. He begged and cried for me to come back. I still feel sorry for him, but I gave him a chance, and he blew it. End of story.

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Samamtha Harpet answered

I think it is because the woman loves the man. And wants to keep him happy and in her life. On that note however if you lone him money get it in weighting that it is a loan.

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Shamyra Jackson answered
I don't think women just give money for no reason..I feel that a women's heart is just big.. A women if she is in love or loves someone that she would do any and every thing for her man.. She would do whatever it takes to make her man happy..including give him money.

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