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Can Husband Wear My Nighties?

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Nighties, whether designed to be worn by men or women, have been a first preference for all looking for comfort wear.  All across the world, nighties have been designed to be worn by women whereas pajamas, trousers and shirts have been designed for men's nightwear.  

However, a handful of men all across the world have a passion to wear female nighties rather than male's nightwear. Reason for this liking amongst men is the fact that the female wear is more comfortable and relaxing. 

On the other hand, not all men, and a majority of females, do not like the idea of wearing nighties. Rather they prefer a pajama or other men's nightwear as nighties is not a socially acceptable phenomenon for men.

Therefore,   a lot of people have a query of whether men can wear these nighties or not. One of the most commonly asked questions by many wives from all across the globe, and which can be found on almost every blog is whether their husbands can wear nighties or not? 

Since my grandfather's era men have stopped buying 'Nightshirts' which were a long soft shirt-like gown. My son wears a long oversized 'T-shirt' (or nothing). Since women wear pajamas there is no right or wrong answer. The answer to this query will depend upon your own perception and your will to go against rather meaningles old fashioned fashion statements. Realy, who cares in the dark at night.

Every individual has the freedom and the right to do anything and everything he wants to do.  However, a few people tend to follow these and do whatever they like, whereas some tend to follow the norms set by obscure people in the fashion industry and our nervous 'Peer Pressure' society and fail to break or deviate from those values.

Wearing of nighties by males is not socially acceptable but still a small minority tend to wear it. Furthermore, many females consider males wearing nighties at night sexier as compared to their looks in the men's night wear.

The only reason for discouraging men from wearing nighties at night is the fact that it has been associated with females and has a distinct 'Dress shape' to it. 
All these associations have been socially developed, and take great courage from men to be revolutionized.

If females can wear denims and shirts in order to dress like males and still have a feminist look, than why can't males wear a plain simple cotton nighty and still look masculine.

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Well my husband has worn many of mine at my suggestion for some twenty years or more! I can't imagine him in ghastly PJ's. He likes me to always wear a long nightie, I love wearing long ankle length nighties and would not wear anything else, now he wear a nightie he knows why I love my nighties,

Men in nighties can look fantastic, very sexy and certainly I love my husband in one every night!
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Wow wish my wife loved this.Id love to wear her silk nighties but she wont have it.She says its not manly.
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Sure, if you're the same size, otherwise you will have to buy him one that fits.  I asked my husband to wear one about 15 years ago and we both enjoyed it very much.  Since then we usually wear matching satin nighties, babydolls, or slips every night.  During the day, he wears the pants in the family.  Of course I select them for him as well as the panties he wears underneath.
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Oh yes.... Have him wear your satin nighties, and buy him some pretty girly baby doll
sets. My goodness, get him lots panties in all materials, silk, satin, nylon and rayon.
And get him some nylons, and have him wear your slips, I loooovvveee slips.
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My wife wears mens style pyjamas, I'm always asking her to wear sexy nighties. Out
shopping recently I was surprised and delighted when she bought two gorgmeous
baby-doll nighties and asked if I liked them. My answer was an emphatic yes,good
she said - smilling mischievously - you're going to be wearing them?
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Yes, I prefer my husband to wear a seductive little satin nightie rather than his macho stripey jim jams. I've just sent him up to g et into his new crimson baby-dolls?
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I'm a single guy (who's straight) but I'll chime in here. I absolutely love to wear women's lingerie to bed, it's so soft and feminine, so why not? I've got a great lingerie wardrobe - baby-doll nighties, satin pajamas, chemises, and two negligees, one lace and one satin, anything you'd find in the wedding night area of a department store lingerie section. I wear lingerie to bed every night, I love the excitement of getting ready for bed and I love how I feel after I slip into one of the pieces in my wardrobe.
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I think all husbands should have to sleep in nighties and panties once in a while . It will help your relationship and get your husband more in line. My husband  only has panties in his drawer now and sleeps in a pretty nightie every night now.
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I am a single guy in my 30s and love thin strap slips and nighties.
My family is against it so have to hide it. I am wearing a ankle length 1 now with a slit up the side to the pantie line
wearing no panties.
Any guy who hasn't done it should try it at least once
it feels like heaven
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Yes anyone can wear nighties as long as no one else minds I wear them as often as I can I love to wear really girlie pink satin slips and cami sets teddies panties etc they are a real turn on for me and my girlfriend
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I wear nighties, long satin ones with sleeves, my wife loves it. She puts out what she wants me  to wear if we are not going out or having visitors. This has developed recently and it has gone from a nighty and a peignoir to directoire bloomers and a satin dress for evening wear and a nighty for bed. Its lovely, she is getting me a velvet gown for our anniversary, last year I wore her wedding dress. I nearly passed out with pleasure.
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My husband does and loves his baby-doll nighties. He looks so sexy and thats what I call him. He has a baby-doll nightie pink in color and one black and pink. God he looks good in nighties and he loves the way they feel so I encourage it Lady's if you want to spice up the love life have him go to ebay and buy some baby-doll nighties from the vintage collection or type in vintage nighties and make someone some money and he gets his nighties. He will feel fantastic in them and look so good
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I recently went to stay with my sister Martha and her new husband John for a few days.
I was surprised and amused when at bedtime Martha appeared wearing mens traditional
blue and white striped pyjamas, with husband John looking delightfully sheepish in a very
fetching lemon chiffon nightie!   I've decided that when I'm married -I do have a suitable
candidate in mind - that my husband will also be wearing nighties.
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I love when my husband wears his baby-doll nighties. He looks awesome in a short nightie and I love it. I never thought I would say this but he does look good. And he loves to wear his gown around the house me I like to get dressed as soon as possible but he likes his nighties. I like them too but I don't tell him that much might give him a swelled head.
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As a husband,I have found that I am more comfortable in the feminine role in the bedroom. I adore lingerie and dressing up for my wife. I have my own nighties panties etc.
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Ladies, if he feels good wearing a nightie let him enjoy it. You will find that he is more sexy in bed and one lady says he wears them around the house that is awesome I think. My husband wears nighties and girl he looks good. He loves when I rub him all over and he loves the feel. Its the feel of the material ladies he likes and he does look sexy so if thats what he wants its no big deal I have read where women didnt like this girl let him do what he wants if he don't do it with you he will do it with somebody else. Enjoy I say
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I have worn nighties for 20 years.I love silky pink frilly ones.When we stay in hotels my wife makes me leave mine on my pillow next to hers.The chambermaids always leave them nicely folded on the bed.
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Yes, I'm a male of middle age,and I just love to vintage nylon nighties and peignoirs/negligee's with four layers of nylon against the the bare skin it really feels fantastic.I'm married and my Wife doesn't seem to mined, too much, even though she is a bit sceptical from time to time.I love the babydoll and waltz length, and just love the nighties that have  a full flare at the hem.The colours that I love are pastel shades like blues,yellows, pink, and black and whites, of which I have. I'm really glad that I AM NOT alone and I see that there are quite a few sites on the internet indicating that... "men"  ...like "real men" that are NO way "strange" like to wear "nylon,satin,and chiffon nighties. Some "macho" pricks[males] would say its pretty poofy and queer,but I'll bet you, that underneath, they wouldn't mind just trying it, beind closed doors,what do you say??  
   So...my conclusion is this, to any male who hasn't just TRIED it, I mean just once, its not going to kill you,[if you can get a "nylon" nightie etc] at least you can say to yourself, that youv'e DONE it.....AND...who knows, you might even like it....and even if you have a partner or are married you can do it, alone, you don't have to tell anyone like the Wife, partner.No bastard can read your mined.....SO  go for it...
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Heard that, men who wear nighties are very sexy and I love for him to feel and look sexy. Heck you only come this way 1 time let him do what he wants no big deal. Ladies if thats what he wants to wear let him my husband is a office worker hes slim but when he wears that nightie with me and snuggles on the couch with me wearing my nightie god we look good.

Life is short, make it good and have fun wearing nighties are so silky smooth and feel great if it relieves the stress from this crazy world what the heck is the difference. Just do it
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My big beautiful wife comes to bed wearing mens black & white striped pyjamas! I must
admit I find it rather intimidating & decided to buy her some sexy silk nighties. When I showed
them to her she was delighted "they're gorgeous" she said "how lovely that my husband
is not afraid to show his feminine side. Then added  with a radiant smile "now I can get rid
of those dowdy pyjamas you've been wearing."Things don't always turn out the way you
expected do they?
                                    John.
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I would like to dress my husband in some womens clothing and go out for the night so there is a danger of getting cought. He is ok with it but I need some ideas please
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Well if want to do that . Start with just panty first to see if he can keep his flower from rising. And be ready to take care of it when you get home. Or in the car if he cant wait!! You would be surpized what 4 hours in them would do. Hey viagra free! Then work from there. Have fun.
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Go some wear where one knows him. Get dressed up go out and have some fun. Check out this web site for some ideas. Www.crossdressusa.com
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Yeah, why not.....my Husband loves to wear vintage double layer nylon nighties with a very sexy chiffon [double layer] negligee or peignoir.He loves the babydoll-style that look very frothy and lots of frills.It makes him look very desirable,He also loves nighties that have lots of long nylon ribbons and bows.and ones that fair out from the bust to the bottom of the nightie.
If a particular babydoll nightie that he really likes to wear[usually pastel light blue] he gets me to sew on extra long nylon ribbons both on the nightie and negligee,as he loves to walk around our home both at night and mornings in his nightie and neg, playing with all those ribbons tying them into sexy bows etc.He says he loves the four layers of nylon on his body and loves to rub his sides whilst waking around,he also likes to wear the negligee in bed with the nightie as well....I must say also my Husband IS very normal and has a very good job in engineering and is a very clever man.I think also that this is just a "relief" for him with all the stress that he has at times.as he is always saying how good he feels in his nighties and negligee's and playing with all those ribbons and bows, both in and out of bed.
  Roxanne.
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My sister started dressing me up when I was an baby until I was about 7.  I was hooked by the time I was 5 or 6 and started wearing panties and nighties whenever I could without being caught.  For some males crossdressing can be quite addictive and progressive.  I married and my wife was not so keen on it, so I did it behide her back.  It took me a few years of buying panties then bras then a baby doll nighty, corsets, nylons, shoes then finally a few dresses.  But at some point it wasn't enough to dress up by myself anymore.  I wanted to play with someone and quickly learned that most women were not so hot about CD's however lots of men were interested. Next came a wig and breastforms, about the time I started buying lipstick and other cosmetics I realised that I was working twords looking like a sexy woman to attract a man.  Who better to appreciate that I looked like a sexy woman.  I wanted to show someone the results of my hobby.  I realised that I was not going to meet a man wearing a dress and have coffee, any woman would know that when you meet a man in private, (as I couldn't pass in public)  their would be expectations. Since I would be dressed for the feminine role I understood that my role would be submissive. I had somewhat conditioned myself by dressing up over the years to be submissive, it only made sense and I did not want to be in the role of a man.  I read up on satisfying a man orally and practiced too.  I placed an add on craigslist and filtered through several responses.  I met him at a Denney's and followed him home.  It was different but, again I had really been roleplaying being a woman for decades.  We strated to meet 2 or 3 times a month, I always enjoyed it.  The thing is I don't believe that I would have ever have had sex with a man had it not been for the the crossdressing.  I was not interested in men I just needed someone to make me feel that old excitement that I once got from putting on a pair of panties.  Each person is different and probably most would not be tempted to follow my path but, contrary to the prevelant belief that 95 or 99% percent of CD's are totally straight.  I have met a lot of CD's and find the percentage to be much higher, around 30% play at least infrequently with other CD's or men who do not dress but, only play with CD's.  
So back to your question: Can he wear your nighty?  Probably.  He can also probably also have a beer frequently and not become an alcoholic.  But on the other hand what is the chance that he will not stay within moderation with food, or money.  He is human like us all and we all have our issues, whether they are seen or hidden.
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I don't see anything wrong with boyfriend or in my case my husband wearing a bABYDOLL nightie. I think he looks sexy in his nightie so we have a awesome marriage he wears his nightie all the time to bed and I wear my shorties around spring, summer but yeah ladies if he wants to wear one let him
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Yes, my husband loves to get into a satin nightie and I find its a turn on for me.
Sometimes I 'll wear his stripey pyjamas its quite sexy!
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Yes, but, is does seem to be a mental dilemma. I love to wear one for my wife and she gets very excited by it. But, it also seems, to occur more often and more at her request than my interest.
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Satin or nylon nightdresses (nighties) – long or short - are worn and appreciated for the slinky sensuous feel of the material, because they offer warmth in colder months and coolness during warm barmy nights. They brighten the bedroom with pastel shades and provide freedom from restrictive clothing on the body.
Not only women.- for whom such underwear or sleepwear are primarily designed, but increasingly more men of all ages are discovering the pleasures of wearing certain women’s underwear – especially nighties for sleepwear and slips under the normal male day apparel – whilst of course panties and bras are often worn as well.
Why not? There is much to commend wearing for example a colourful satin or nylon nightie in bed at night rather than some awful pair of dull coloured cotton pyjamas. Nighties not only feel sensuous and sexy, but offer the feeling of freedom and that “feel good!” factor
If you enjoy the sensual feel of a silky slip or satin panties against the skin then indulge in such delights for they are harmless and can provide a lot of personal pleasure your wife may appreciate more readily you wearing a nightie if you select one not heavily adorned with lace – bit less feminine!
Lovely lace for us girls unless your partner is very “open minded!”
We offer a range of nighties and slips – generally vintage because they are frankly the best – in design and quality.
Gentlemen are as welcome as Ladies Discretion is our hallmark, please feel free to ask in confidence any questions applicable to the item and its wear ability. We will be delighted to give you what assistance we can
Items for him are regularly listed on our E-Bay site
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Yep thats right let him wear it, nothing feels better that a baby-doll nightie with two layers making him look so good. And girls he does look sexy in them. I have always let my husband wear nighties around he looks fabulous and he loves the way they feel. The only nighties he wears are the double layered baby-doll nighties thats all he likes to wear. I pinch his behind cause its so cute to pinch.
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For many years, I have not worn pajamas.  I found them too confining, and I would wear a t-shirt or nothing at all to bed.  A few years ago, my lover let me wear one of her nylon nightgowns; it was buttery-soft and afforded me the "lower" freedom that I enjoyed and felt wonderful all over.  I have worn nightgowns every night ever since.  I purchase them on-line from suppliers of women's plus-sized lingerie, and I just love 'em.
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Yeah, can't see why not,.....sexy double layer nylon nighties and negligee's  would look great on your Man and very sexy too....
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YEs husbands can wear nighties during bed time and my wife zarina prefers me to wear her clothes at home and nightie for bed and she also prefers me to be with out clothes at home when e are alone
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Absolutely. I started putting my BF in panties & nighties before we got married, 3 years ago. Today he doesn't own any men's underthings. He sleeps in a white nightie every night and a couple of times a week I put his (shoulder-length) hair up in brush rollers and have him sleep in those. The benefits to our relationship have been many. He is significantly more gentle, patient, and docile when he’s in his nightie, with his hair in curlers. I often leave his hair in curlers the next day and he has to wear them when we run errands, go to the market, to the nail salon, etc. I am a great believer that men respond well to this kind of “petticoat discipline” and I really enjoy shopping for lingerie with him. Go to Victoria’s Secret – the girls there are very used to couples shopping for his-n-hers lingerie.
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As a man I have worn a nice little nightie/gown and panties to bed and I thought it was very comfortable and it was cute my girlfriend said hun you look very pretty, and sexy tonight and she wore a very manly attire like a T Shirt and Jeans and she wanted me to lift up my gown and she said to me I like the panties too and then she makes me wear a cute little miniskirt around the house while she was wearing Tshirt and Denim Jeans and then she said shake my butt for her and I did and her girlfriends where over and they said your boyfriend wears womens clothes and they all liked it and said he looks cute and they said their husbands and boyfriends do it sometimes too
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This is the problem hey girls if he wants to wear a nightgown it will not hurt anybody its ok so chill he will look very sexy in one
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I wear nighties all the time and panties and I'm married with three children thow they don't know and so what its the 21st century you have one live so live it who to say you can't wear lovely lingerie
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My ex-wife (for other reasons then wearing lingerie) said on many occasions and I quote, "How can a man wearing lingerie turn me on so much?"

At first it was random when I wore her nighties then it was please wear this and have sex with me. Well lucky me, I have loved to wear lingerie all my life, so no objection.

I know have over 100 items of MY own lingerie. It's mine and it's lingerie. I wear it and I purchased it. It's a item of clothing that women also wear.

I wear some sort of sexy item every night, a slip, camisole or nightgown. It's such a part of my life now that I can't see myself not sleeping in one.

I made the determination that when I started dating again I would tell my girlfriend this right off the bat... She has no problem with it. In fact, she benefits from it as well, our sex life is going on strong as ever.

Enjoy....

Kenny, in my lacy cami!
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My wife loves it when I wear nighties. In fact I wear them around the house and to bed.
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I love becoming a Victorian era woman when I prepare myself for bed every night. My nightdresses are all high necked, long sleeved, full length affairs with, soft and delicate frilly adornments at the collar, bodice, placket and wrists. Most importantly I always don a frilly lace ruffled bonnet to sleep in that frames my face in lovely lacy frills and that ties securely in place with a draping bow under my chin. I love becoming a dainty and demure woman of Victorian times, fully buttoned up to my chin in bed and feeling submissively ready for those conjugal minded hands to start drawing my voluminously befrilled nightie up to my midriff under the bedcovers in dutiful anticipation of becoming as one with my love.

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