My Girlfriend Wont Communicate With Me? We Have Been Together For Two Years, Everytime There Is Something She Dont Like She Sends Me To Coventry, She Says I Not Interested In Listening To What She Says & That I Dont Care, I Am Always Saying I Care

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Yes, it certainly sounds as if there's a serious lack of communication between the two of you. I'd suggest having a face-to-face sit-down with her and discussing your issues. That way, you can work together to try to solve them.
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You've told her of your doubts? If she didn't take that seriously perhaps you're better off ending the relationship with her.
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Catherine Camp commented
We are now having a break from eachother, i cant understand why she is being like this with me, its so frustrating, i have tried & tried to make her see how this is affecting me, all i want is for her to open up to me, but she says i dont care bout her & never listens, but i do, its always ME that trys to help her talk, she knows it really gets to me. We are still living in the same house, but sleeping seperately. She texted me at work yesterday around 1.30pm asking if i was ok, i didnt reply. ,
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A break is probably best. It'll give the both of you time to think things through.
I think you should have replied, and told her honestly how you were feeling, instead of completely ignoring her
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Friend, I'm in the same boat as you... Except my girlfriend runs away. Everytime no exceptions! I've been with her (more off than on) for two years and we have never even argued once! She runs even at the hint of an argument! These people whom are telling you to sit her down and talk to her just aren't getting it are they?! The girlfriend simply can't communicate, they just can't! No matter how much you sit them down and talk to them!  It just keeps happening over and over and over again. Even though they know they should and it's the right thing to do! They will even look you in the eye and tell you it is!  I'm thinking it's a mental sickness, deep emotional fear or a childhood haunting. Yeah, at first my girlfriend made up all kind of excuses and blamed it on me too until it became so obvious, even to her, that it was her.  Now she doesn't even make excuses she just say's: "we are just different" and keeps on keeping on... Here's the kicker, I hear her talking to her friends that are having similar problems and she gives them the exact, perfect, right advise but can't seen to make the connection within herself - feature that!!!
Friend, if you find the answers please send them my way and I'll do the same.
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I think you should tell her you can't deal with it anymore and it drives you nut when you think of it. Maybe we should take a break for a while.

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