How Do I Tell My Girlfriend That I Love Her A Lot?

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Kathryn Wright answered
It must be love, love, love

Many people are afraid of being the first one in the relationship to say those words 'I LOVE YOU'. Timing can be difficult and normally, people are worried that the sentiment wont be reciprocated.

If you really love your girlfriend truthfully by your heart, then you really do not have to prove yourself by telling her so. Your actions will speak louder than your words. You do not have to do anything fancy for your girlfriend in order to prove that you love her a lot. You should do what you feel like. The feeling should come out of your heart and not from your mind. If your girlfriend loves you a lot too, she will appreciate your effort that you have put into it as you are very special to her as well. You also do not need to tell her every few minutes how much you love her. Even if you just say it once a day, it would be more than enough.

How to prove to your girlfriend that you love her
If you truly love her a lot tell her, tell her everyday how much you love her, take her out to eat on random days, and buy her flowers every now and then, and tell her thank you for the things that she does for you. Just be yourself and let your emotions take over, be nice and sweet to her, do sweet things for her and remember to always let her know that your always going to be there for her and that you will always love her no matter what.

You could also give her a gift that is really thoughtful. Present it to her on a Tuesday or some other random day. This should be something from your heart. Tell her that you love her care about her a lot. She will see that you were thinking about her and know that you are sincere. Take the leap

Take the risk
without taking the risk and telling someone that you love them, you may risk losing them if they do not feel that there is commitment from you, and you could end up regretting keeping your feelings to yourself. Who wants to go through life wondering 'what if'? Take a risk and be honest about your feelings. If you lose someone because you open up to them and tell them that you love them, then as sad as you may feel, you will have to be content with knowing that they obviously weren't 'the one'.
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Anonymous answered
I am a girl. Be total honest with her. She want's you to tell her. She doesn't think its weird at all. Please trust me. You shouldn't be nervous to tell her. O.k., pretend that you are a girl. Think about this. Would you want her to tell you? P.s. The answer to that is YES!
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Shalin Choksi answered
If you really love your girlfriend truthfully by your heart, then you really do not have to prove yourself by telling her so. Your actions will speak louder than your words. You do not have to do anything fancy for your girlfriend in order to prove that you love her a lot. You should do what you feel like. The feeling should come out of your heart and not from your mind. If your girlfriend loves you a lot too, she will appreciate your effort that you have put into it as you are very special to her as well. You also do not need to tell her every few minutes how much you love her. Even if you just say it once a day, it would be more than enough.

In order to make the relationship work, it is important to take things really slow. If you rush things, the relationship will end much sooner than you had expected.
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Anonymous answered
The best way is when you hug her, just try not to let go for as long as you can.
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Rei Konogure answered
If you really love her. Just come out and say it. Tell her exactly how much you love her and if it's been a long time you've felt that way, tell her that too. If she feels the same way she'll be happy you told her that and return the feelings back to you ten fold.
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Anonymous answered
Well I believe a girl that loves you will always love you.So, 2 let her know you love her,minimize the talk of I love you just act,let her fall into whatever way you may want to show.Have a real and unique french kiss,then get 2 kno what she's expecting from you,then giv it to her at d rite time not anytime;it might be a hug or other things.
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Haydn Leigh answered
Buy her a beautiful necklace or something, take her out to dinner and tell her how in love with her you are. If you're that kind of guy, you can write her a song, girls can always connect to music =)
good luck!!
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Rei Konogure commented
I don't think that's a good idea. It sorta would sound like he'd try to buy her or something like that. But that's just my opinion
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mohammed sadik answered
If I were you just be sure of her love first cuse when I told my gf that I love her with out sure she told me we should stay friends and brothers and I could ever say to her that I love her again but doing my best trying to shaw  her that she is my life and my love and I love her more than I its 2 hard not to tell her but take my advice just be sure first or you will lose her and thats the most bad thing will ever happen to you or any lover
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T R answered
Tell her with your actions.  Respect her and treat he like a women should be treated.  This speak much louder than words.  Every now and then you should tell her that you love her.
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Anonymous answered
My girlfriend been hurt a lot in the past & she want to tell me that she in love wit me but she don't want to tell me because she felt like she will go through the same as her last relationship. She just want somebody that wont cheat on her n will treat her  like dey really love her. & I'm da guy that loves her. It hurt me so much cause I can't really tell her how much I love her she wont believe it...but I'm tryin so hard to tell her that I'm the right one & wont never cheat on her. She knows I'm the right one & I want her to tell me that she loves me.
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Pat Schiss answered
Iz guez I can't speak da proper english boiiiiiiiiiii so my message won git acros...half the people on here need to learn to type/probably speak. Anyway, treat her like a person, not like an object. Move slowly, and love will come very naturally, as will the time to say it. Your actions determine the depth of how you really feel about her. Keep things simple and worry free. Trust me, the both of you will be 100% happier (if you are dating for the right reasons in the first place). It may take a long time, but wait until you feel that you can honestly tell her you love her, and wait until you can tell her you love her without selfishly expecting anything in return.

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