My mom hates me and always swears at me. I dont really know what to do. I hate her so much but I can't really do anything. The only happiness in my life is One Direction. She woulld not care if I die. She only cares about the family's name?


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otis otiscambell Profile

Well why does she cuss at you . Maybe you don't clean your room or do chores. You live in your parents house its their rules

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Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

Unfortunately, Parenting doesn't come with an instruction manual so Parents are often stressed out or over loaded and its a law of nature that we all manage to take out our feelings on those closest to us, just like in relationships. Chances are your Mom loves you very much but doesn't know how to control her stress here so you get the receiving end.  You hate her because you are receiving the bad here too, but your Mom may need some professional help in learning how to control her anger issues and to learn how to show more love here. But she will always be your Mom no matter what happens in life and the day will come that all this will just be a bad memory and you will need your Mom more that you realize. 

Cut her some slack as chances are you aren't the ideal Daughter either if truth be told.  You just need to steer clear of her when she's in one of these head-hunting moods so as not to start WWIII and you'll be fine. One day you two will become best friends forever, trust me but don't learn her ways too good as this is exactly what you don't want to be like when you have a Daughter. Good luck

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Cookie Roma answered

What you can do is grow up, stop whining , Make your life what it should be. 

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PJ Stein answered

Since you are a One Direction fan I have to presume you are a young teen girl. Guess what? You and your mom are right on track. You think you are grown up more than you are and your mother still sees you as a young kid.

All i can say is do your best to follow the rules she has in place. There is actually a good reason for them. If you do that she will see you as more responsible and give you some more freedom. You have to give a little to get a little.

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