Ok here goes need advice. I am 30 years old my mom is very emotionally abusive to me she will say something mean to me then a week or two later apologize She hates my boyfriend.My boyfriend said i can move in with him should i if my mom treats me bad?

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Janey Profile
Janey answered
Well if you're 30 years old surely you're old enough and independent enough to get your own place and not worry about people giving you hassle.
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mark pichler answered
Did you ever think!
That is what he wants?
But! Not in a good way.
Guys have a tendency to lord thing over on a woman.
"You should be thankful I pull you out of what you were in!"
Is that what you really want?
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Lexi answered
Well you only have one mother in your life but many boys will come along. Is this boy worth posibly loosing everything you have with your mother. Thats the only question you should be asking. The only other option is to find your mom a conpanion to keep her busy.
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Arthur Wright answered
You are definitely old enough to be making your own decisions in your life here and as an adult , you don't need your Mom any longer to tell you what to do, so now is the time to take control of your life and do what you feel is right for you here and don't worry about your Mother as she will be alright. Sounds like shes just afraid to lose you since shes become dependent on you so she will do whatever to keep you home and under her. If you want to move in with your BF, you don't need our advice or permission to do so, so just go for it and live happily ever after. We are not legally responsible for our parents unless theyre mentally or physicallly challenged. So youre an adult here , act like one
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amanda yenter
amanda yenter commented
This is just a snowflake on the iceberg of what shes said and done to me
Arthur Wright
Arthur Wright commented
Ok I understand fully and have seen and dealt with many times but iot comes down to one question here; besides being your Mother, why do you put up with this abuse, especially when you dont have to?

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