My Boyfriend Calls Me A Whore But Wants Me To Stay With Him, What Do I Do?

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elli Profile
elli answered
If he really cared he would not call you a whore or any other name calling , that is verbal abuse which eventually will turn into psychical get out now
thanked the writer.
Anonymous
Anonymous commented
Thanks that helps now i just need to know how to dump him.
elli
elli commented
Well are you guys living together? If not i think its easy just tell him you are done
nettie Profile
nettie answered
You have two choices, 1. You make a exit, on your way out blow him a kiss.....2. You can stay and be his whore and accept the language and abuse that he is heaping upon you...the final decision is up to you, but do the right thing and respect yourself and never allow anyone to disrespect you...the best to you
adtoral Profile
adtoral answered
PLEASE get out NOW!!! That is just the tip of the iceberg,verbal abuse leads to emotional abuse which leads to physical abuse.Your playing with fire girl, DUMP THAT CHUMP...PRONTO!!!!
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
RU KIDDING ME? Sounds like you are stupid if you even think about lowering your standards for a guy- come on- give yourself some credit here! God did not create only one man! There are many guys who know how to treat a woman- be wise about your choices!!
JuliAnne/ Genuine Guidance Profile
On what basis is he calling you a whore? Furthermore, why would you put up with someone calling you names? A man who loves and adores you would NEVER call you a derogatory name.
Just remember, the verbal abuse can escalate at some point to where he may become physical. Do you really want to wait for that day?
If you don't believe you deserve better than this guy who has a filthy mouth, then stick with him. If you have an ounce of respect for yourself you will remove yourself from his life.
Dr. Philip Love Profile
Dr. Philip Love answered
You need to leave him ASAP. He does want you in his life but yet cannot be with you without resorting to abuse to fulfill his own deep seated needs to work out his past issues.

It's your call. He WILL NOT change
Sam Hill Profile
Sam Hill answered
Dump him. You don't deserve to be called names. Get rid of him!
Dave oop Profile
Dave oop answered
I agree no one should be treated like that. As for blowing a kiss or any smart ass behaviour, that is just stupid, he may loose it and become physical. If you leave then just leave, no need to try and be hurtful on the way out, at best you'd be lowering yourself to his standards.

I would ask as "Askjuliqhp" said why? It is obvious there is problems in the relationship. However most people here are assuming that he isn't acting this way because of something you are doing. As I said that doesn't make it ok. However there is something called cause and effect. Lets say you are a flirt, well that would obviously be a problem for him, not all men, and that would mean it's time to find someone that doesn't get bothered by that, or make sure that there is no doubt in his head he's better than all the rest. Continuing this way will only lead to sadness. And leaving is likely best. Just don't forget to ask yourself what role you may have played in things going this way. To not ask that, invites it to happen again. I have always asked myself what I might have done wrong in a situation with a partner. It's the only way to keep your self honest and fair to others. Some people think they should be able to do what ever they want, well relationships are about compromise. Unless you are lucky enough to find the perfect person for you.

Keep well and safe
Judith (Irish Faerie Blessings) Kreindel Profile
Please consider not taking such blatant disrespect. Perhaps he feels if he can convince you that you are less valuable than you are, he thinks you will believe he's the best you can do. I promise you that is not the case. Seems like a form of psychological control. Set boundaries with what you will and won't accept and stick to them. The earlier you do this in life, the happier you'll be. I wish you luck in deciding what to do here, listen to your heart!
katelyn Profile
katelyn answered
Tell him that you don't like what he's calling you and that it hurts you when it does and after that he don't I suggest you end it thats not healthy
asia bourda Profile
asia bourda answered
I can't tell you what to do but it seems to me that you should break up with him I mean how much can be actualy care about you if he calls you a whore.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
call him a whore and watch how that make him feel then tell him you feel the same way.
Mari R Profile
Mari R answered
If you like him you just say that don't ever call me that again or if you don't  like him brake up

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