That is bull! Just because you date someone does not mean that you love them. Some men don't even know what real love is until they meet that speical someone (their wife). I have dated many women and I can honestly say, at one time I thought it was love that I had with those ex-girlfriends, but it wasnt' until I met my wife that I knew that no way in hell was it love, it was just sex and convienence. Not all men have feeling for their ex-girlfriends.