Why Do People Pretend To Be Your Friend Then Slag You Off Behind Your Back?

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Why Do People Pretend To Be Your Friend Then Slag You Off Behind Your Back?

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Answer 1

Because mainly there jealous of you I think its mainly a girl thing but we have all done it although its not nice I would confront them and ask them did they mean the things they say? 9 times out of 10 they will say no and you will get an apology if you don't feel you can trust them again then it is time to let go of the friendship.

Answer 2

These type of people have a very low self esteem and they need people to give then attention to make them feel good. They only use other people to boost their own self esteem, by show they are better then everyone else. They use another person they call as friend to prove they are better in one self. And they actually feel better about them self after that. Because they don't see they are the one in fault. They are blind. They secretly wish deep down in side to have what you have. But try to bring you down to their level of confidence, only to makes them feel stronger.

Id not trust those types of people. They would only be my HI and GOOD BUY friend, and "hows the weather", "Did see what,s happened on the new's", or Tv show. So I would not tell them whats happening in your life. Or even try to help them. They will only slap you in the back again, only hurting you.

Id smile from a distance at them so they will leave you alone. And think your still friends with them. Keep them from even asking you whats wrong. Because they will only hurt you again.

You can see I got hurt to many times by those types of people.

They are good people. They need an outsider to help them.

Life is to be enjoyed. And help people that care or don't know you in person.

lol. Enjoy life, so many other greater things to do.

Answer 3

You know what? I have been through a similar experience. And I am glad to say that we can all move on and live life to the fullest. Just move on and say I am better then that person. Then one day when they come looking to be friends again just say something along the lines of- I'm sorry but- Do I know you? The idea is to pretend not to know them. That's exactly what Michael Phelps did during the olympics when all the people that used to tease him came to say hi after his amazing performance. And If I was YOU I would do the same thing.

Good Luck and Bless you for coming out and talking about the problem that many of us have a troublesome time dealing with.