FOR GUYS ONLY!: When your ex boyfriend says that you didn't mean anything to him. Is he just trying to hurt me or trying to get me to miss him? HELP!

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Lynne Dwyer Profile
Lynne Dwyer answered
The only reason anyone would say something like that, is to cause pain. He hurts you, you call him. He hurts you again, you text him. You are his whipping post. He can say or do anything to do, and you come back for more. Dump him. Don't text him. Don't talk to him. I''l bet my last dollar that he's running his mouth off to his friends, puttin you down. You deserve better than that.
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Coque Givah
Coque Givah commented
Or to tell the truth. He was with you, but it was only sexual, NOT EMOTIONAL. This is possible, and AT LEAST HE IS BEING HONEST. I'm sick of stupid little girls mis-reading what GOOD guys do, then treating all guys as bad guys as a result, it's harmful to EVERYONE you come into contact with, when you get this wrong! I've been with girls and thought that, but not said it - but it's better to say it and let her know that it's not worth her time, once and for all, than to let her wonder, worry, ponder, obsess and waste time over it. It's more honest, and has more honour in it, to be honest, and it's not up to men to shield women from the realities of life - women need to "man up" (funny how there's no female-themed equivalent to that phrase, isn't it - VERY telling as to the real gender inequality in life, that). Or stop claiming "equality", if you're not going to work as hard as men at being REAL and instead demand that THEY work harder at LYING just because you're weak-minded and can't handle the truth. Liars are bad people a lot of the time - but if that's true - isn't it even worse to encourage that by being a person who NEEDS TO BE LIED TO?
Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright answered
Never had a BF lone less an ex one but I would say he said this more to hurt than forcing you into missing him which he will take for granted that will  happen anyway as boys are notorious to say hurtful things especially during break ups as it makes them feel more macho or manly I suppose and never realize just how really stupid it makes them look
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Katie Bug
Katie Bug commented
I texted him saying I miss him. Is that bad?? He never responds to me. What do I do?
Arthur Wright
Arthur Wright commented
I just answered your other question but dont run back to him, make him wonder if you ever truly wanted him so dont let him on as this is exactly what he wants and he will control you by not replying
victoria green Profile
victoria green answered
I think to hurt you. I wouldnt text him. If you ignore him for a while he might start to miss you and want to get back together.

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