Hmm. I have that problem too with my boyfriend. I try so hard to let it go, and when were alone, its fine. But when we go out to the movies or something, I notice the other girls. And even though he doesn't even think twice about looking at them, I start to wonder "why did he pick me out of all the other girls? I'm no where near perfect..." but then you have to think to yourself...he did pick you. So out of all those other beautiful looking girls, he fell in love with you, because you are different in some way, and much more prettier then any other girl out there. =]
First you have to look at yourself, are you happy with what you see? Not just on the outside but on the inside too. When you are not secure with yourself, you usually compare yourself to others to see whether you look better, act better or whatever. Once you yourself becomes comfortable with who you are. It will not matter what girls your boyfriend talks to or hangs out with. And if your boyfriend cares for you he wouldn't do anything to jeopardize your relationship. With that note...trust is another issue. Do you trust your boyfriend and does he trust you, because if there's no trust, that can also lead to insecurities in a relationship. Without trust a relationship can't stand, you can't keep secrets from your partner and your partner can't keep secrets from you. Once all these issues are resolved then you should feel more comfortable about the other girls and your boyfriend.
Theres this girl he always talk to, they been friends for years and I don't like her. What can I do to just let them be friends?
Hey I have problem with my boy friend he is jealous to much the way I wear my clothes if talk with some one one the mobile or someone look at me if we r out side he feel angry and he begin to questions if I know him and this stuff... But the problem is he don't like my jealousy and mine its normal and he never say sorry if he did some mistake becoz he never make mistake as he saying all the time ... But in the end I know he loves me ,,, what I can do plz help me?