How Can I Control My Jealousy Dealing With My Boyfriend?

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Hmm. I have that problem too with my boyfriend. I try so hard to let it go, and when were alone, its fine. But when we go out to the movies or something, I notice the other girls. And even though he doesn't even think twice about looking at them, I start to wonder "why did he pick me out of all the other girls? I'm no where near perfect..." but then you have to think to yourself...he did pick you. So out of all those other beautiful looking girls, he fell in love with you, because you are different in some way, and much more prettier then any other girl out there.  =]
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I have this problem with my boyfriend. I'm the jealous type and I do not know how to control it. Last time we had a huge argument because he told me one of my friends was extreamly hot. I tried not responding to that but it was impossible. He said I'm exagerating too much. Maybe I am, but his comment went to far and I know it. What can I do if I donot control this I know I will lose him. I know he loves me, but Ibecome jealous easily and I don't know what to do.
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First you have to look at yourself, are you happy with what you see? Not just on the outside but on the inside too. When you are not secure with yourself, you usually compare yourself to others to see whether you look better, act better or whatever. Once you yourself becomes comfortable with who you are. It will not matter what girls your boyfriend talks to or hangs out with. And if your boyfriend cares for you he wouldn't do anything to jeopardize your relationship. With that note...trust is another issue. Do you trust your boyfriend and does he trust you, because if there's no trust, that can also lead to insecurities in a relationship. Without trust a relationship can't stand, you can't keep secrets from your partner and your partner can't keep secrets from you. Once all these issues are resolved then you should feel more comfortable about the other girls and your boyfriend.
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michell cottrell commented
can you give me any advice how to get to becoming comfortable with myself on the inside.. i trust him. i know he wouldn't do anything with them. he doesn't hangout with any girls because i don't like it and i do the same for him.. not because i don't trust him but because I'm jealous.. maybe from him feeling attachment with them or finding something in them that i don't have..
how can i stop that feeling?
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Theres this girl he always talk to, they been friends for years and I don't like her. What can I do to just let them be friends?
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Hey I have problem with my boy friend he is jealous to  much the way I wear my clothes if talk with some one one the mobile or someone look at me if we r out side he feel angry and he begin to questions  if I know him and this stuff... But the problem is he don't like my jealousy and mine its normal and he never say sorry if he did some mistake becoz he never make mistake as he saying all the time ... But in the end I know he loves me ,,, what I can do plz help me?

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