How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Stop Looking At Porn?

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Roy Lovett Profile
Roy Lovett answered

I don't see a problem with him watching porn, it's not like he's cheating on you or anything to satisfy :P just saying...

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Baby answered
I don't know what you people are thinking! Porn is disgusting! And why should he be looking at some other porn he shouldnt be thinking about other girls or wanting to see other girls. Thats bull shit! Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Try this. Its called an "I" message. You say this to him anytime you need to communicate you tell him straight out how you feel but at the same time your not being rude so he isn't getting defensive

I feel (fill in your emotion)
When you (fill in his action)
Because (fill in why)
I need you to ( fill in your need)

if this does not work and he still does it knowing it makes you feel this way he isn't caring enough about you feeling and to much about the dick in his pants.
If all else fails, break up with him, if he comes back begging for you promising change tell him you will take him back when he proves to you he is worth it.
If he doesnt and you never hear from him again its probably a good thing that he is gone.
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Anonymous answered
My boyfriend does the same thing. I understand that he is just horny sometimes when I'm not there. I tell him it hurts my feelings. And before I even came along meeting him he always felt bad doing it. Now he runs to me for help on stopping him and getting him away from this but I never know what to say. I am only getting hurt more and more. I had and still have so many trust issues. Do I take a break from him so we can both figure things out on our own? Or what am I supposed to do. I need to think quick cause he is already starting to make himself distant from me and it is really scary. It feels like he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do?
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Emmy Piper answered
I agree with Minimaz's suggestion! Watching porn with your
guy, making the both of you steamy and hot and then dragging eachother to the
bedroom and ravaging eachother for hours is my idea of heaven! Some of the best
sex I've had is after watching porn with my guy and then pouncing on him, we're
both incredibly horny and take out all that pressure on eachother  - this is how I managed to come to terms with
the porn that once made me so uncomfortable, by embracing it! Best thing I ever
did :)



Unfortunately I recently broke up with the same guy, I miss our wild sex life :'( God I would love to feel his touch again!
The Dragon Profile
The Dragon answered
We cannot stop them from doing so...It is just normal for they are boys( it's a boy thing).
ALAN   DAVIS Profile
ALAN DAVIS answered
He is only your boyfriend, not your husband so egg nor it and be satisfied that all he dose is look at the porn. If you pester him to much You might make it worse.
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ALAN   DAVIS
ALAN DAVIS commented
Your boyfriend should be wanting you after his porn and you should be getting a lot of enjoyment from all of this.
Anonymous
Anonymous commented
He should, but he looks at porn when Im not there. When we are together, I ALWAYS make the move. He is just not used to chasing the girl...apparently previous relationships he is always chased. I just want him to man-handle me and have his way, exert all his fantasies and fob porn off! BUT when I see his recent docs, i always feel let down and when he wont have sex with me, i feel its due to that. How do I compete whilst being fair? Am I just being an emotional insecure girl about it?
ALAN   DAVIS
ALAN DAVIS commented
Just what kind of porn dose he watch, Man/Woman, Woman/Woman, Woman/Animal, etc.? Do you ever look at any with him? When he say's no to sex do you know why? If you do not mind me asking?
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Mary Cooke answered
Hmm-mm dress up sexy and make the first move, some blokes love being told what to do in bed take charge and make your fantasies come true, why not look at the porn together and then drag him to bed!! Try it you never know!!

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