How do I get my dad to like my boyfriend?

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Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright answered
Dads automatically "hate" or dislike any guy, no matter who he is or what he does, that wants anything to do with his little girl.  But in reality we may like the guy but rules of Fatherhood forbid us to show it at anytime for any reason. When you become a Parent, youll understand all this, but seen around enough, Fathers warm up to current BFs but that doesnt mean we wouldnt hesitate to shoot him
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Jalie Juers
Jalie Juers commented
I know this, but what's the point of being over protective. If he doesn't loosen his grip on me, I might have to rebel.
Ray Ottewell Profile
Ray Ottewell answered
Your Dad loves you and wants to protect you give him time.
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Jalie Juers
Jalie Juers commented
I know he loves me, but he needs to loosen his grip on me. I feel like he don't even trust me around my boyfriend, who has came over to talk and meet him. My boyfriend trys to make an effort, but my dad's not!
leanne Profile
leanne answered
Before me and my ex broke up my dad hated him so much but one day my ex as coming over to the house and i forgot i was going on a girly day out with my mum so i arranged with my ex that he could stop and spend the day with my brother and dad while i went out with my mum it really helped us all because my dad and brother got to know my ex better and they suddenly liked him after one day it was great but then we decided to stay friends but he stills talks to my dad :) .... Maybe you should plan something like that get your dad and boyfriend to have a bonding so that they get to know each other even if it's just sitting them in a room with an xbox :) hope i helped :)
Martha Edgar Profile
Martha Edgar answered
Make sure your boyfriend shows your dad respect at all times .  But you can't really make your dad like anyone , he will form his own opinion.
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Jalie Juers
Jalie Juers commented
My boyfriend does show respect for my dad, but my boyfriends friends talk crap about and since they are moving soon I don't want to be rude and say it's ur friends or me. But my dad thinks that he should just forget them. I don't know what to do and I really love my boyfriend and he loves me to so I know breaking up isn't the way to go!
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sana shaker answered
Tell your boy friend to act and do things that your father like make him a boy that your father like fathers r always like this.hope I helped
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Jalie Juers
Jalie Juers commented
Well he does act right, he has gave my father nothing but respect for him and I. Thanks for responding!
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jamie wise answered
Well you should try and get ur bf to have alone time with your dad and let them get to kno each other :) and get him to help you around the house and you kno stuff like that, he'll win him over soon enough :) goodluck
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Jalie Juers
Jalie Juers commented
Thank you very much I will also try that too.....my boyfriend really needs my dad trust. My dad hates him only because of his friends but i love him and I want the best for everyone and breaking up isn't the way to go.

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