My Parents Hate My Boyfriend. What Should I Do?

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Learn by your own mistakes if you think you love him then go for it. No harm in trying he might have a criminal background and his family might also but that doesn't mean he is a bad person or that you don't love him. Forget what your parents say it is you that has to be happy not them. If you plan to spend the rest of your life with this guy then that is your decision and you should not let anyone stop you. Your parents should be supporting you and if things go wrong they should also be there for you wither they think the decision you made was right or wrong.

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My parents hate my boyfriend too, but I am much more younger then you. To release the tension- On Valentine's Day, my family, boyfriend, and I all went bowling. My family still dislikes him, but now they had a chance to see how him and I interact with one another. Maybe, you and your family can discuss the major issues at which are at hand, or maybe discuss with them about having a day together with you and your boyfriend. I hope I helped.
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I have the same exact situation and its killing me everyday.  My parents keep telling me if they find out that I'm with him, they'll kick me out the house and never speak to me again. I feel like killing myself sometimes. Its so hard and I don't understand why this has to happen to me
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Tell Rorri Peaton that your mom and dad hates him he will say thats not their bissbissness ness and they should stay out of you and Rorri Peaton because from the thoughts of it ROrri Peaton loves you and you are 22 years old forget your strict mom and dad they have no say in that Patrick Moore isn't your boyfriend anymore date Rorri Peaton and talk to Rorri Peaton only and forget what Mom says because Patrick Moore isn't allowed to take you away from Rorri Peaton
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I am getting married and my parents hate my fiance. He is stubborn and so are they so I understand why the situation could get tough to deal with. Sad as it sounds, I have found that the best way to deal with parents who REFUSE to like your boyfriend is to keep them away from him as much as possible. He and I tried to see them as a couple numerous times but my parents are so possessive that they made our time together miserable so I don't make him go anymore. I will visit my parents for a few days and he stays home. I wish with all of my heart that they could get along, but sometimes that just doesn't work out.
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I think it's best to listen to your parents and ask how can your man earn their respect.  And if they do tell you how, then you must seriously talk to your boyfriend about it.  If he does really love you, he'll move mountains to earn the respect of your family and they will eventually accept him.
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I have the same problem as you, my parents don't like my boyfriend at all nor does he like them. These kind of situations can get so hard, I am younger then you so I problem don't fully understand some things. But as for love when you love someone it shouldnt matter what anyone elses says. Yes they are you parents but they should learn to live with the fact that your happy and in love. I hope this helps a little bit.
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I'm in the same situation, sometimes I have to say I'm out with other people. I love him soo much, and my parents only notice the bad things about him. It just not fair.
I say do things your way. You can't help falling in love with him, it just happened. Your parents probably didnt have a PERFICT record wen they were younger, but hey THEY fell in love..
Do what your heart wants, not your parents!!
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I think you should be with even though you pearents hate him. My pearents hate this boyy that I luv becausee they think cause am a girl that I carnt hav a boi till 20 but my bruva can have a girl. Dats y I have to do it behind there back and it kills me everydayy soo they wana move my schools soo I forget about him
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I am facing the same issue, and let me tell you that is is a horrible feeling.. She told me to either choose him or my parents.. Just pray to God.

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