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How Do You Make Your Parents Feel Guilty?

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rana laala answered
Blank them. Don't talk, don't reply. Don't ask them for help. When they walk into the room you're in, walk out. Don't give them attention. If they try to make you laugh, hold it in ; try not to laugh.. Or just get out and leave the room. Don't eat.. If they ask you what you want to eat today or where you want to go: Say, ''nothing'' in a sad way. At the end, if they ask you why you are doing this.. Explain to them exactly how you feel and then cry.
Make them feel soo guilty. It really works.
Hope this helps x
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Anonymous answered
For a week or so;
DO EVERYTHING YOURSELF.
IGNORE YOUR PARENTS.
DON'T EAT. ( Steal snacks, so you wont starve )
BE OVER-DRAMATIC.
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Fatima Abdullrahman
um there iss one minor flaw
arab parents force u to talk to them and if u don't u get hit by their hand, belt or slippers so do u have any more advice for parents like these
Smelly Bottom
Smelly Bottom commented
Don't cry and if they hit you block their arm.
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Shanette Cross answered
Stay away from all family. Stay in room. Don't eat in front of anyone. Don't speak. Be independent and rude for about 3-4 days and they will come around. 3-4 days is a long time for parents to go through such treatment. They won't be able to take it. My mom is f*ckin' crazy!!!!!
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I'm going to go on a strike where I just won't eat for a week. She is so unfair just because I'm the oldest! And I try to be as independent as possible but even I need a little love and attention
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My dad just about killed my dog because he was mad at me. I don't get it at all!!!!  My dog was my best friend and its like he never cared about him at all!! I hate my mom and dad so much!!! If you've been told not to do something,you didn't do it, and you get in trouble for it, you would understand my life!!! There never there for me, never there to comfort me, and heck there not even eating in the same room as me!! I hate them so much. I pray everyday to repent on my sins about what I say about them but enough is enough!! If they tell us to learn manners, they should do themselves a favor and learn manners first!!!!!
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My parents are heartless snakes.   They are SUPER strict and mean and grumpy ALL the time.  No matter what they are never happy... Ni matter if you try your best t behave and follow the rules.  I'm a strong Christian and follow the bible.  But my parents are still mean and have ruined MANY important things and events and friendships in my life.   In front pf other parents, teachers, especially pastors and church ppl, but really adults in general they lie and pretend to do and be something they arent... They especially lie about us, what we  (my poor siblings who are stuck here longer cause I'm the oldest and out in two years)  do, and how they "deal" with us.   No MATTER what there is no guilt or giving in for them.  The only care when they feel like it and what the choose to care about... And it is NEVER our feelings.  I miss out a lot in life and can't wait to be free and live a FUN but tru christian life... Cause no matter what I will alwas have jesus.  But even my my parents grounded me from band, friends, and other REALLY important things they have NO guilt... They even admitted they got joy out of punishing once... I guess what I'm saying if your parents are like mine then its not worth time or effort... Instead of trying to make them feel guilty,  (this is after you tried to CALMLY talk to them about the problem a few times... In a POLITE and NICE way), just be the best you can be to their standards, hold onto to Jesus, whom will always give ypu happiness no matter what your situation, and just remember the year you trun 18 you are OUT!  (And yes, my parents DID use to abuse me a little)
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I was trying to write a 10 page paper in FRENCH for school and my brother was playing video games really  loudly and I asked him to turn it down and he says no and starts yelling. My mom came down stairs and told me to stop yelling or she would unplug the computer-not letting me finish my paper. I said I didnt yell. She called me a liar and unplugged the computer. Bye bye french honors...
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My parents are controle freaks and in a definate mindset that they are always right, no matter what I say how many facts I throw at the how many ppl I get to say I'm right they refuse to accept that I'm right and their wrong..... They are unenjoyable people to be around to I tend to avoid them but their over protective so they always want to know where I am I swear on the holy bible if I could get one shot at my dad I would hit him so hard thet mabey MABEY some sence would get knocked into him
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Just nod your head to everything they have to say. Then start doing things yourself. Trust me this will work, because then they will start feeling guilty.
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Dan Jackson
Dan Jackson commented
Agreed but what if your parents have locked the food cupbord after previous incodents like this????
Rehan Kapur
Rehan Kapur commented
whenever i reply back to them they tell me to shut up and also tell me not to act smart even though i am wright
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Angel Gabriel answered
My dad is the worst, he is mad at me even if I get good grades, he is mad!! Takes all of my stuff!!!! And then he loves punishing me. I am the oldest of  my f*ucking brothers, In this year alone my younger brother has failed like 5 exams (I'm not exagerating) and he doesnt do anithing to punish him and I get punished for not being on school for about 10 meters.
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So Its my senior prom on saturday. My mom won't let my boyfriend go because she doesn't like him. She never even gave him the time of day. She went as far as calling my School telling them not to let him in (he already graduated) so there is no possible way he can go. He already got his tux, my corsage, dinner reservations, and everything....Thanks mommy!
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I suppose every ones got some bad times in there life!!! My friend got me a ticket to Greenday and I don't even have to pay but my mum said no and my once best friend wont talk to me!!! I'm the middle child and it SUCKS because you never get noticed. My older brother would have been allowed to go but he HASNT GOT A LIFE! And both my parents really favour my little bro.
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Omg this is my life. I'm a middle child too. My older brother is just like yours and my sister is seen as "the little angel." And sharing a room with her is terrible😤
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My mom is making me feel guilty so I keep a sign on my door that says she is not allowed in my room and I also give her the cold shoulder any time she wants to talk to me. In other words do not give them the time of day.
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Don't eat,don't talk to your parents...my dad sucks I failed the board exam once and he told me I am stupid!I don't like my course h should have been more considerate to understand it!!!!!he's the one whom I expect to be more open minded!he's straight to the point!!!!I wish he just be dead!
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esmi rey answered
That's nothing. My parents beat me a lot they r the kind of parents who do that
one time my stupid sister ac cussed me of pulling her hair and I didnt I just tripped and almost tripped her so my dad comes and beats me with a leather belt and he's strong and then he lifted me up by my left ear and it started bleeding.
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Janis Haskell answered

That's the last thing I would want to do!  My mom always did her very best for me, and I'd give anything to have her back with me.

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Jaimie JT answered

Both of my parents died last year ... It was a weird year ... I can't make them feel guilty but this question makes me feel sad .. Do you feel guilty for reminding me I'm sad ?? You should then 😡

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I wanted a baby snake I offered to pay for it and I got it after 3 yrs of asking...my mum called my step-dad home from work early because I injured my knee and he got de-moted from work....HE KILLED MY SNAKE JUST BECAUSE I INJURED MY SELF....HE IS A F****** C***
Rehan Kapur Profile
Rehan Kapur answered

my parents have taken away my freedom, my phone, my laptop and i can't even meet my friends.. But now they are going to get it hard.. Lets see if the can keep up

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awesome winner answered

My parents are taking control of my life they aren't permitting me to speak to my best friend and keep me in the house at hols and weekends they won't let me go to asda ir tesco but at least i can speak to people on this though but the whole home has a sense of gloom in it

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kyle kolb answered

You know - I have got sick and tired of my parents this morning.  I trimmed this giant bush stuck it all into one green garbage can - took me about two and a half hours to finish.  My mom comes up and ruffles the bush up and makes a bunch of leaves fall out and my mom and dad sit and watch me pick up leaves.  Afterwards they leave to go to the store promising something really nice.  I waited by the door for two hours. When they came in its a device for picking up the dogs poop!  And they said have fun.

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Anonymous answered

My parents are so mean to me!

They bought an iPad for ME then when I put a password on it and I told them the password, they then changed the password right away so I can't log into it. My dad saw a picture of a stranger a friend sent to me by email. 

I hate them so much ! My dad is always strict and if I do something he don't like but it's not something wrong, he just shouts at me and hit me. My mum always follow my dad and she's always on his side even if he's wrong and I'm right. My parents are children hurting devils at home and when there are people around, they try to act nice to me and they won't shout at me. Then when I come home again they shout at me and hit me.

If you want to make parents guilty. Cry and do things by yourself still crying. If you can't cry, then think of something they say or do that will make you cry then try to cry again. Don't listen to them and ignore them. Don't do what they say and when they shout at you also imagine they're not there. Do that until they say sorry then hug them.

Trust me, I've tried this yesterday and it worked. You only need to do it for one day or one hour then they will feel guilty.

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Destiny Torres answered

Ok so you know what? I used to make them guilty but now I've just given up. Whenever my little brother does anything like play loud music and I tell him to turn it down, my dad shouts at me and tells me to stop shouting at my bro. 

I get that he's my dad's fav - but why treat me like crap?  I'm always told to do chores but he never has to lift a finger. My dad screams at me for not doing something. Just today my dad told me to put the groceries away and I said I would in 2 mins because I was eating my lunch and he started yelling and swearing at me. 

I've learnt that you should just do what you're told and ignore them. Dont starve yourself. Eat your meals but when you're done go back to your room.  Just stay away from them and after a week they will say sorry. Hopefully it's better for others,  coz fro me it's just a cycle.

 I get shouted at, stay mad for a week, parents say sorry, I get shouted at and so on....

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Go to your room, slam the door, and don't come out until they're begging you to come out. Then you're in the clear. Unless you have parents like mine that just embarrass you until you cry your eyes out.

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Elena Pashos answered

WOW the comments on here really make me appreciate my mom more haha. Not really. If I ever try to ignore her she goes friggin' crazy! She just threw one of her tantrums because I borrowed a bracelet I didn't know I wasn't allowed to wear because she never told me not to (which now I see it was mostly wrong on my part), and I ignored her and she got right in my face and taunted me in the voice of a 5 year old. 

This is why I LOVE SCHOOL AND HATE SUMMER!

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i hate my parents. They dont understand what depression is because "theyve been thru it all" . I had one D i one of my classes (not my overall grade) that i got today for not turning somethig in. I told them i can turn it in tommorow and get a good grade but then they got mad and took away my phone, most of my clothes and shoes, and i cant go to georgia for xmas with them. I honestly dont care because i would love to stay away from them. I have tried to be open with them and tel them about my thoughts of suicide but they just laughed and said im an idiot. They call me names, hit me, and threaten to break stuff on my head. I hate them both. They wonder why i never come out of my room. Its because everything i do isnt good enough for them. I have no personality because of them. I dont know what to do anymore. I just wish to die sometimes. And i guess to my parents and 11 year old girl (me) is fine to think about this stuff. They say ill thank them when im older but i know i wont. If anything, i would stay away. Im not sure how to make them feel guilty because if im silent, they will get md. If im in my room, they say to come out to socialize. If i dont eat they say they will pour food on my head. Im nothing because of them. I dont even want to live till 12.

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Ami Yell answered

My brother is my parents fav. It's not fair. They restrict me from EVERYTHING. I'm 11 and I don't have a phone yet. Like what the heck. My dad says u must focus on studies. I'm just like k I'll do my he and so I do. Then he tells me to do my he for the whole week and read the whole textbook multiple times. My mom slaps me. They keep changing. They don the understand my life. It sesly not fair. I need to take a stand but I'm 2 afraid 2 do it

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If you're working on a project for a class, like me, then try including how bad your parents are in one of the slides.

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My mom is such b***ch. I got this surgury in my left foot and of course they had to put stiches, me and my family were walking to the movies and I felt a snap in my foot (I wasn't supposed to walk)  so I said "Mom, I don't think I can walk much, I felt a snap by my stiches" All of the sudden she went super mad and we had to leave just because she said so and told me I couldn't do anything related to fun for a week! B*TCH
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My mom sucks! She always gets offended when I tell her what she does wrong. She is an immature baby and she gives me the cold shoulder!!!! She's immature and messy and unorganized and she doesn't deserve to be a mother. She's an idiot and she just yelled the f word at my brother for not giving her a paper
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Me and my mum made up and I realized it was partly my fault and she's taking me out to go bicycle riding and we are going to have a chat while walking to the Sydney opera house (I live 5 mins away from it) so I'm really excited because I plan to tell her I'm engaged and Im hoping we'll have a marvelous time planning the wedding!!!!!! Also I'm reallly sorry about the things I said about her because I exaggerated and she really is a great mum!!
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I wished my mum would take me to the cinema to see this film now it is feb and its not in the cinema anymore. Even though she managed to see it with my step dad. Just because she can't be bothered. I can't believe her. Its been out since november
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Well this won't make your parents guilty but it is a great thing to do for revenge.  What you do (you have to know their email and password) just go on their email delete everything, then change the password.  Make sure to delete the history on the computer because you don't want your parents to find out.  Hope this works. It is so funny when I do it to my parents.
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My friends dad whacks her with a metal belt whenever she doesnt do her chores properly, (e.g clean all the dirt off his car, or miss a bit on the dishes.) Her mom is okay but is scared of her dad too, (he also hits her) My friend even ran away for 2 weeks because she couldn't take it anymore. So everyone who is saying they get shouted at and they hate their parents coz there not fair, well just think, atleast you and your mom aren't getting whacked by a belt, by making one minor mistake. Atleast your parents care for you, even if their a little grumpy.
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happy pizza commented
It's called abuse and your friend should seek help. In my case, it didn't work so I decided to just endure it. Tbh, metal belt? I've got hit with almost everything. Metal belt, a dining table chair, metal hangers, bamboo cane, books, slipper, wooden broom, even my own guitar. A little grumpy? Hah, I think it's more like my parents are mentally unstable. The funny thing is that all my 5 older siblings think that's normal and I'm the one with a problem. LOL.
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Get them to admit there wrong  then say... And mom/dad thats what hurts the most and walk away
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I don't know. My mom is so horrible! I asked if my sister would get out of my room nicely but she didn't and then my mom yelled at ME for yelling at my sister! Now, I don't get to go to the mall on Saturday! :( I HATE HER!
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Try to seem somewhat intimidated by them. Always be very cautious and
nervous in their presence and don't start conversations. If they ask
you something, make a simple answer. Don't eat when they serve you food
but make sure to sneak snacks. If they start to get mad at you, beg for
forgiveness and apologize for your mistakes. Also, do what they ask and
try to not be joyful. Try to look tired and sad and go to bed early.
Don't make eye contact with your parents, at all. If they threaten to
take away a privilege, accept it and move on. If you didn't care, they
wouldn't threaten to tak it away. If they do take something Important from
you such as a sport or hobby, don't cry and let them know that you are
sad, just act emotionless.

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You ppl are Lucky my mum is cancelling my phone laptop airtime wont let me text talk to my boy friend or much else I am going to get her BBBBBBAAAD for this !11
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tikarra jackson answered
Well, if your life is messed up, you can always blame your parents of a lack of  being a parent. You can make them feel as if everything that goes wrong with you is their fault. You can blame them for something terrible that has happened in your childhood.   Hold up..... Why would you want to make your parents feel guilty? Isn;t that kinda mean?
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The one above where it says my mum is immature and stupid I exaggerated. We made up and it was a stupid little quarrel. I'm really sorry about what I said because I don't mean it. I love my mum even though we disagree sometimes. I plan to tell her about my engagement today at the Sydney opera house ( we live 5 mins away) I'm so exhuberant!
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If you want to make your parents feel guilty, be independent. You need to do everything by yourself (laundry, cooking, cleaning your room, etc...) Not only will this make your parents feel like you don't need them, (which will definitely hurt their feelings) it will also prepare you for the future when you'll have your own home and responsibilities.

Also, be sure to avoid and ignore them. Whenever they walk in a room, walk out. Whenever they look at you, look away sadly. Never talk or reply to them. Don't laugh or smile (the goal is to look depressed whenever you're near them). If you can, eat in a room away from family, or try not to eat at all (be sure to sneak in food when they're not around) If they force you to sit at the table with them, then just pick at your food and look depressed and hurt. The goal is to pretend like they don't exist.

If they ask you what's wrong, look sad and say something that will make them feel like it's their fault (Like, "I just feel like no one loves me anymore.") And if they brush it off, then go straight back to ignoring them until they apologize and try to make a change for the better.

*Remember, you will be independent one day. And when you are, YOU will be in charge of your life and be free to do whatever you want. You'll leave your parents' house, and from then on you can choose what kind of relationship you want to have with them. If they are really mean, they'll get their karma, trust me. Just stay happy! oxoxo

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Looking at everyone, I realized mine isn't so bad after all...
I'm 5th and whenever they see a kid with me, they be all mean and stuf so they would hate me...
:(
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Here's what you do: Appologize to them and jst strt crying. If they go, yes , you should be sorry, walk out of the room and don't tak 2them
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Your parents will eventually come around, no point in making them feel guilty. They've always been there for you as you should be for them. I admit ive had my points where I just about want to never see/talk to them again. But they'll always help you in the direst of situations.
Peace
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Act as nice as you can then when they are least expecting make them feel like they want to die
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Okay well. Ii qot 2 cat'zz and like ii love them very much. But they were like scratchinq on stuff so my mom sent them away to a farm and iidk. It'zz worser then it sound'zz but yea
iiloveyuuh suqarbear && Ike =[
**sniffle**sniffle**
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I don't know wy you young-ins out here dogg-in your parents over lame situation so what you can't see you boyfriend/girlfriend or go out went to want to...Parents have instincts about certain things and until you become ah parent you will never know the stuff they have to put up wit having kids....yal need to love and cherish yal parents and forgive the mistakes they made as a parent because if their lives are gone today or tomorrow you stuck alone...its ppl out here who don't even have ah mom or dad...ppl get it together and quit bein so harsh to the ones who pushed yal out they could of got an abortion and got rid of you asses....now grow up and move on

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