Trying to make your boyfriend feel guilty is childish and immature. Even if you succeed, you'll have achieved nothing. If your boyfriend has upset you, tell him! Talk about it and resolve the issue rather than trying to make him feel bad - you won't make any progress as a couple unless you communicate.
Instead of trying to make your boyfriend feel guilty, try one of these instead:
If you still find yourself wanting to make your boyfriend feel guilty, even after discussing the matter, then you should probably reconsider your relationship. Either you're not right for each other, or you're not ready for a mature relationship.
Instead of trying to make your boyfriend feel guilty, try one of these instead:
- Let him know you're angry and upset. That in itself is likely to make him feel guilty, but at least he'll know what he's done wrong.
- Find a different way to express those negative emotions - write them down, or play sport.
- Talk about it. This is so much better than trying to make him feel guilty, even if it does get a bit heated.
- Ask yourself what's more important - getting revenge, or continuing the relationship.
If you still find yourself wanting to make your boyfriend feel guilty, even after discussing the matter, then you should probably reconsider your relationship. Either you're not right for each other, or you're not ready for a mature relationship.
