I am 13 and my brother is15. The way he treats me makes me cry an a regular basis. A 13 year-old boy should not cry that much. He is always jumping on me and holding me down, and other s@#% like that. Whenever I tell my parents they just say "Just leave him alone." He is always messing with me and getting me p$##!% off. He doesn't know how bad he hurts me.(physically and mentally.) He is always calling me names. I just hate my life. I came here because I had no other place to go. I'm just looking for ways to make him realize what he is doing to me. Please give me answers.
I hate my big brother too, he's always messing around!
E.g sometimes he just comes to me and stabs me in the stomach and since I make the noise my mum tells ME off!
Its so f-ing unfair! And I never fight!
BTW if I tell on my brother when he is being mean to me, she won't care! But if my brother says something to my mum then she is like "Go down to your room!" or "Stop irretating your brother"
Sometimes I just feel like they are a team and they all team on the youngest one in the family besides I don't really like my brother anymore I still talk about school and stuff to my mum though..
Everyday when I wake up, I either A, get yelled at for no apparent reason by them, and or B, Get Physically hurt. It's constant pick pick pick, on me and I feel as if I can't control my anger. I hold all of it inside of me because I don't want them to see what they have been doing to me. I mean, yes I understand friends will stab you in your back, but family and brothers will be there or your whole life, But I'm just getting so gosh darn upset for how much pain they bring to me, what do I do?..
My advice: Quit trying! You're wasting your time! My brothers hated me from the very start. When I was learning how to walk, they would push me down after every 2 steps! I can't take them pushing me down anymore! Anyways, there's nothing you can do to change this. Just be happy he gave you a break at first:You'll only have to go through this for half the time I will.
I am 13 and my 17 year old brother is the same way but I gues me working out has finaly paid off or you could just ignore him and not be in the same room as him don't be bad or else youl get in truble just be normal but don't speak or be in the same room as him that often it worked for me bifore I started working out
Look I know how you feel my bro the same way so just egnor him but if he is SO MEAN just go in a different room. So just remember he is your BROTHER and don't let him get to you
When you fight, the most important thing to do is to be the mature one of the two. In other words, be the first to stop fighting, be the first to say, "I'm sorry. It was my fault.", be the first to forgive, and continue to be nice to him. It's called, piling heat on his head. You also do this to jerks..lol..anyways...very soon he'll stop being a jerk. If he's sensible enough he'll start feel ashamed and guilty. I know it's hard to do that cause you're young. It's very very hard. I know cause I'm still there. This is coming from someone with three other brothers..so, I know..lol..most of the time, I'm not the mature one, but I try to be.
anyways, the more you fight back and the more you let him in your head, the more tense it'll get and the more annoying he'll be. Before you open your mouth to call him a name, or you're about to smack him, THINK. Just know, life is short. You may hate him now, but in twenty years you might not get another chance to say what you want to say. You might die, or he might die, who knows? Now is your chance to love him and be a good sister. It's a life time opportunity.
My brother is always punching me in the ribs and now days he's making me bleed, today 5minutes ago he punched me and I'm bleeding! My parents aren't doing anything to him that would make him stop so comment and help me plz :'( !
I too had an older brother, and when he reached high school he acted as if I didn't exist. When we did communicate it was only during a fight (physical.) Even in later years he thought that he knew everything, but as we both matured (we were both in our 30's) we began to realize that we were brothers and that we did love one another. He learned not to try and boss me around, and most importantly, he learned to respect my opinions and me. Have patience, back off, and give him room.
Oh my god that same thing happens to me. My 15 year old brother always is doing that stupid stuff to me to! I hate it! What I do is ignore him and walk away yeah the he make's me say that I hate my life but in a little bit I get over is. So my advice is just to ignore him and walk away when he is being a jerk then if he keeps on doing that you can just not talk to him and make him regret doing that stuff.
I have a brother that is really mean to me and he is older I don't know how to make him nice . When I turned 3 my brother started being mean to me I just don't know what to do , so leave a comment to help me out
Oh, God. Sounds like my brother. Go talk to your parents. Last time, he got grounded for doing that when I told my parents and they gave him warnings and on the 2nd warning he got busted. He lost his TV for 1 week and computer for 1 week. Plus, don't fight back.
I have no brothers only my wee sister who is 2 years younger than me. When we were young we fought and argued all the time but nobody dared lift a hand to her or they had me to contend with. She used to get me hit by my mom and dad when I wouldn't let her have her own way. Many years later we remember back and laugh about it all. We are very close and we rely on each other. Shes still my wee sister and I'm still her big brother. Life's too short, so make the best of your family while you can. :)
You don't have the rights to do it, he's your brother. no matter what she'd done to you, you cannot change the fact that he is your brother, so be thankful.
